I've just registered and really not sure if I'm on the right er 'thread' but I can't work out where else to post this.
I need some advice. I'm soon to be 35 and am with with a lovely lovely guy who is 42. I've never been broody and for a long time, said I don't really want children (my partner however, does). Yet as the big 3-5 is erring ever nearer, I'm having to give it all some serious thought.
My feelings are still the same and I don't certainly don't hear the sound of a clock ticking - but as I have always said, its not so much the family I don't want (I love my family and love being part of a family), rather its the 'baby' thing I don't want. I like the idea of having children 5+ but the thought of no sleep, tantrums etc from the under 5's puts the fear of god up me!
I guess the question is, do yo go ahead with having children if you are not broody? Or do you need to really want children to help you through the testing first few years? Has anyone out there got pregnant and had children without particularly wanting them first and if so, how did it turn out? My sister thinks that hormones put pays tho this and once the bond happens, your smitten...but its a bit of a risk isn't it?? What happens if the bond never happens?
Any thoughts, views, opinions gratefully appreciated.
Cheers,
Bella....the undecided
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Bella123 · 16/08/2007 18:00
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