So I feel I have no one to talk to in order to protect DH’s privacy but I need someone to tell me they understand... he has not (in the past few weeks) been been able to stay hard during foreplay or intercourse although is still able to come on occasion, he acknowledges the issue in a flippant manner but naturally doesn’t want to discuss it and has begged me not to tell my family or friends which is fine and I won’t but I’m stopping my pill next week in order for us to start trying for a baby and we’re so excited yet there’s this underlying thought from both of us that it may not happen.
I already feel emotional about potentially not conceiving and we haven’t even started yet! I know there’ll be other routes like viagra etc..he’s told me I just need to be spontaneous rather than planning sex as he overthinks it but you kinda have to had planned sex when you’re TTC 😑 (unless I don’t tell him when I’m ovulating and he thinks I’m being spontaneous)..but then how can I share anything exciting with him? I’m already keeping it all a secret from my family and friends because I wanna surprise them all if/when we do conceive but I feel like I can’t discuss it with anyone and I’m going mad 🤯
HELP!
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Potential ED but TTC
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Newtothis93 · 11/09/2019 22:06
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