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10 DPO, whoes with me?

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jadelouiselaird · 11/09/2019 10:34

Hey everyone anyone else at 10dpo

Do you have any symptoms and when will you test?

Baby dust

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mrssunshinexxx · 11/09/2019 10:45

Hi @jadelouiselaird I am 9dpo hope I'm welcome !

I keep thinking i have a few twinges but not sure if it's all in my head! You?

I only tested early the 1st month of ttc and I was crushed with the negative I find it easier to see af appear.
Having said that I have one test in the house and really am struggling this month

What about you xx

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jadelouiselaird · 11/09/2019 10:51

hey @mrssunshinexxx

ive not had any symptoms which is strange as i usually get sore boobs before AF is due.

I tested yesterday with a cheapie but just going to hold off now until AF is due, if i can.

Good luck to you, keep me updated

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mrssunshinexxx · 11/09/2019 11:03

@jadelouiselaird any signs on the test ?

I would say no symptoms is a good sign if you usually get them

Isit your first baby? How long have you been trying x

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jadelouiselaird · 11/09/2019 11:11

@mrssunshinexxx No Nothing on the test

its the 1st proper month of trying, so not getting my hopes up yet. Had my implant out in July

This will be my first baby, i have been pregnant before but ended in a miscarriage (about 5 years ago)

What about you?

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edibletreats · 11/09/2019 11:19

I'm 9 dpo too...I think. I usually get ovulation pain and think I ovulated a couple days early. I am off on holiday tomorrow so trying to decide whether to test tomorrow morning before flying or just take the test with me to do it whilst away...

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mrssunshinexxx · 11/09/2019 11:20

@edibletreats I would just wait and hopefully af won't show up x

@jadelouiselaird yes first baby and month 6 x

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jadelouiselaird · 11/09/2019 11:24

@edibletreats i agree probably best of waiting, i know its hard though!

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lunasunshine · 11/09/2019 12:25

I’m also 10dpo and 2nd cycle of TTC. I had the most vivid dream that I was pregnant so I took a test this morning - BFN. I was really disappointed so now I think I’m just going to wait until my period is due. Pretty sure this month isn’t my month! Sad

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mrssunshinexxx · 11/09/2019 13:04

It's so hard @edibletreats

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jadelouiselaird · 11/09/2019 13:05

@lunasunshine dont give up hope, fingers crossed for you

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jadelouiselaird · 11/09/2019 14:22

when i said ive had no symptoms ive actually had a headache all day, maybe just coincidence though

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Gigi318 · 11/09/2019 14:34

Hi ladies! I'm 8dpo, have been nauseous and tired. Pinching and cramping yesterday. First real month TTC and first baby. I've never felt like this before. AF due 22nd, going to hold off to test until then 🤞🏻

@jadelouiselaird when are you thinking of testing?

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jadelouiselaird · 11/09/2019 14:39

@Gigi318 hopefully hold of till sunday when AF is due, if i can. I dont think this month will be it as still getting used to doing OPKs, tracking etc

Baby dust to you... Keep us updated

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Gigi318 · 11/09/2019 14:50

Yes hopefully hold off @jadelouiselaird - just tell yourself that the hCG will be stronger if you can make it. We'll support you!

Thanks, I'm very new to this and currently tracking using my body's own signs. So we shall see. 12 days to wait for me. Potentially! It seems so long!

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jadelouiselaird · 11/09/2019 15:02

@Gigi318 i know the wait is dreadful!, do you ovulate late in your cycle then if you are 8dpo?

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Gigi318 · 11/09/2019 15:19

@jadelouiselaird no early. It was around CD 11 for me this time. Although we also DTD day 14 (OH away 12&13). I'd calculated it was 12 & 15 but downloaded Flo last night and I'd got it wrong! AF due around 22nd, but will wait til am of 23rd to test I think as have a few things on that weekend that will get in the way and I don't want to risk ruining everything. Ahhh! I must sound crazy. But I so think holding out as long as poss will help.

Where did you ovulate in your cycle?

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jadelouiselaird · 11/09/2019 15:27

I think it was CD15, i used OPKs and apps etc but cant be certain that the OPK was peak or not. i think i may have missed a test so not going off them. First month on trying properly so next cycle im going to try track properly

Apps are only a guide, so cant really go off them either. What will be will be i suppose

you dont sound crazy, i get you!

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Gigi318 · 11/09/2019 15:36

Oh amazing @jadelouiselaird so hopefully bang on the mark. Exactly, I thought I'd take a look for a guide, but going by my body mainly. Well, the CM! I've not used OPKs before, think I might next month - should I need to.

Ah yes, so you're around a week ahead of me. Not long to wait, I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you. Are you going to use FR?

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jadelouiselaird · 11/09/2019 15:45

@Gigi318 ive only got some cheapie tests, but will probs invest in FR if still nothing by wednesday

im hoping you mean first response tests, still getting used to the abbreviations

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Gigi318 · 11/09/2019 15:59

Yes, First Response @jadelouiselaird - and me too 😂 I keep forgetting the terms for things and have to go back and look so people know what I'm trying to say!

Yes. Excellent. I have two Clear Blue early detections in my drawer and I know lots of ladies on here aren't fans, but I'll use them first and if need be, I've already put a two pack of FRER in my Amazon basket 🙊

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NightlyBye · 11/09/2019 16:04

Hi everyone :)

I did a test this morning and got a BFN. This is my 5th cycle, TTC for the 1st time. I felt pretty sure that things had happened, but feel crushed again. I think I'm 12 days PO, but my cycle length is predicted at 36 days this month (which is the longest yet).
OH feels more hopeful than me and thinks I shouldn't rule it out until AF date (14th).

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jadelouiselaird · 11/09/2019 16:04

it can get so expensive cant it and if i have them ill use them haha!

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Gigi318 · 11/09/2019 16:34

@NightlyBye welcome! I say hold off and test again. Could be too early to tell for your body, perhaps? Few more days and hopefully that hCg will be stronger. Or you'll get AF and know either way x

@jadelouiselaird oh I can imagine. This is the first lot I've bought £9 on Amazon for 3. Did one last month after a scare. BFN and then the mother of AF came later that day. But we weren't actively trying then. I just panicked 😂

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jadelouiselaird · 11/09/2019 16:37

@NightlyBye as they say not out to AF comes, keeping everything crossed for you have you had any symptoms?

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NightlyBye · 11/09/2019 17:48

@Gigi318 yeah, think im going to have to wait it out like a big girl hah!

@jadeloiuselaird I've been symptom spotting for a few days now... cramps but they feel slightly different to usual pre AF ones, and my boobs feel sore. Think I could be reading too much into it. I said I wasn't going to symptom spot this month, but its hard not to when you're feeling desperate. Im 37 so kinda worried that time is running out

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