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Anyone fancy joining me? Feeling good about this month!
Cycle length 39-41 days
Af due 10th may
Ovulating should be today!
DTD thurs, sun, mon and weds.....
@carysmatic im so sorry =( i dont know what else to say =( all i can say is have some wine and chocolate! =) and lets relax this cycle, try not to obsess and speak soon? =) xx
@Luckylola12 I had a chemical, heavy bleeding and cramping now 😔 maybe we can do our tww again this cycle xx
Oh no @Luckylola12 blabber as much as you want, I was crying two days ago just because I though AF was coming. I know how stressful this journey can be and I'm so sorry that AF has arrived again for you. It's heartbreaking but I'm sure it'll happen for you soon.
@carysmatic of course you can! Go for it =) sorry theres me blabbering on, lets focus on some good news! x
@Luckylola12 fingers crossed for you this next cycle, it'll happen when it happens. I'm still very nervous about this positive test. I don't even want to call it a BFP that's how cautious I am. I had a chemical/early miscarriage about 5 years ago (wasn't TTC at the time) but I'm so nervous that I can get pg just not say pg. Can I show you a picture of my test, see what you think?
@carysmatic that was my 5th cycle in 8 months, as my cycles are so long 😭 we pretty much dtd every other day and then twice in a row when i got my smiley so i dont understand 😭😭😭
Oh @Luckylola12 I'm so sorry, it will happen for you soon I'm sure. At least you're now able to track your ovulation so you can make sure you're DTD at the right time. How many cycles have you been trying for now? Xx
@carysmatic congrats!!!! Sounds like you got your bfp! =) i got my af ='( i dont think its ever going to happen, something must be wrong
So this morning I woke up at like 4:30 desperate for a wee so I thought I'd double check no AF (before doing a test) and nope still no AF just lots of milky white CM. So I did a test a FRER, and I got a faint line, I've never ever had any kind of second line on a FRER but there is definitely a second on the test. I even did a second test from the same urine sample and that too came up with a really faint line. I'm in total shock. I feel nauseous, but excited and really cautious.
@carysmatic thats the tests im using too! =) i tested this morning but clear bfn! Im trying to save money this month so i dont want to buy any others haha! So im having to be patient! I would test tomoro if still no af! =D soo hope you get your bfp this month!! =) xx
@Luckylola12 been using the internet cheapie tests, the one step ones. I'm 16dpo and CD 29 today, I'm keeping everything crossed. Have you tested at all yet? I may test with a FRER tomorrow morning if still late xx
@carysmatic maybe that was implantation cramps!!! Fingers crossed for you =) what tests are you using? Im 14dpo so af due tomorrow i think? Got lower back pain today! But that could just be from work so still no idea!
No AF this morning yet, I normally come on first thing so AF is officially late, all my AFish type symptoms have eased off as well, no more cramping. I'm just feeling really bloated and nauseous. Hoping it's a good sign. How you getting on @Luckylola12 xx
@Luckylola12 I dunno, I think everyone's cycles are different. I don't think you'll defiantly have a period 14days after ovulation.
@Luckylola12 I caved and did a IC test, two in fact. I swear I saw a second line if I really squinted but if I tired to take a picture I couldn't see it on the picture. Now when I look at them the lines seem to have completely gone. I'm getting really bad cramps today and feel really down in the dumps, really emotional. Fairly certain AF is in the way!
@Carysmatic yes try and wait =D i for some reason just took a cheapy pregnancy test and obvs it was a bfn! So af is due tomorrow but my cycles are all over the place so i dont know! But if i had a positive opk it should be 14 days after right?
Hey @Luckylola12 I'm also feeling really sick today, very bloated and kinda crampy, though it's more in my lower back. AF due today or tomorrow, so far nothing yet today. I may test tomorrow morning if AF hasn't arrived tomorrow or try and wait until Thursday because that would mean I'd be testing once AF was officially late. I'm CD 28 today and 15dpo.
@carysmatic how you doing today? Im 13dpo, feeling sick this morning but that could be anything! Had a few random stabbing pains/twinges over the past few days. I dont feel any different tho but i dont ever get symptons with af so i dont know!
@Luckylola12 you never know, may still be a little early for you to get too many symptoms. I'm still feeling fairly nauseous today but no further cramping, no other symptoms other than the nausea though. Unfortunately got a really quiet day at work so plenty of time to over think 🙈
@Carysmatic dont give up hope! Ive read lots of stories of women getting bfn with a frer but still get a bfp! Your symptons sound promising =)
Ive had no other symptons so im not feeling positive this time! But im just happy i got a positive opk for once! Which should mean this cycle should be a 39 day length!
That sounds promising @Luckylola12 how many DPO? Could be implantation! Any other symptoms?
I took a FRER this morning which was a HUGE BFN 😔 literally could not have been more stark white! AF due in 4-5days but still getting really strong AF symptoms like it's literally going to start any minute. I've been feeling totally exhausted today and really nauseous. No vomiting but just feel so sick all the time. I've got a lot of MWCM, I'm only new to checking my CM so I've no idea what's normal in the lead up to AF but just feels like a lot more than normal. With all these symptoms I just find it all so confusing as I got such a clear BFN. I just feel very different this cycle, I just want AF to arrive and put me out of my misery if she is going to arrive. Rather it sooner than later!
How you getting on @Lilimum7?
So today ive got a few sharp stabbing pains in lower tummy and lots of sticky pale yellow cm! So confused!
@Carysmatic i will be 14dpo...although i prob will be tempted to test sooner 🙈 its been 4 months since mc. My friend who had a mc the month after me found out shes pg again...i spent last friday crying in bed for an hour after she txt to tell me 😩 im happy for her but also gutted it hasnt happened for me yet. I tried clear blue digital opk this month for first time and got static last friday and had been dtd upto and after it so fingers crossed 🤞🏻 good luck to u and let me know x
@EC418 it's so hard, how many DPO will you be when you test? I'm 10 DPO today and I was going to test with FMU but I was half asleep this morning and actually forgot 😂 so maybe I'll do it tomorrow morning, maybe or maybe I'll wait until Sunday when I'll be 13 DPO
Only 6dpo and my mind is going nuts!!! Bloated, sore boobs and ache in lower back. Had some pinky ewcm at 4dpo and today. Hate the wait! Have a wedding weekend beginning next friday in Newcastle so im going to test that morning before i get my flight. Why does the tww have to drag 😩
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