Hi I dont know if im at the right place for this so I'm sorry if I'm wrong. I am desperate to become a mum. I have never felt so strongly about anything before its killing me. Me and my partner are both nearly 24. We have been together for 2 years and living together for 1 year. We have spoken a lot about wanting a family but there is so much to take into consideration. Currently we are both off work. He has been off work for 3 months now due to depression/anxiety. I took time out due to stress but planning on going back in 2 or 3 weeks. Once I am back I will be learning to drive again so that's one step closer to being ready. I feel I am ready emotionally and more determined than ever to get back on track but im not financially ready. My relationship is amazing and we know we want our future together so we are very secure. But my partner is not ready at all and is terrified. He feels he will never be ready and is terrified he will never be well enough to be a good dad. I understand how difficult it is to suffer with mental health so I feel so selfish for wanting a baby now. He will be an amazing dad even though he doesn't believe it himself. How do you cope with the intense broodiness and what can I do to help my partner feel better about this? And how can you tell when you are truly ready? Again I am sorry if I'm at the wrong place for this.
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Desperate to have a baby but dont feel ready.
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Beckslouu · 28/02/2019 21:17
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