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Dtd problems!

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smarty14 Tue 26-Feb-19 21:32:28

I'm having some serious problems with getting husband in the bedroom and actually having sex!! Seriously i think he thinks that babies are brought by storks!!!

Does anyone else have/had this problem.
It does cause some major rows between us last one being last wk and he says i'm sorry i'll be better etc etc

I honestly don't know what to do anymore! Help me 😣

Lammoshay Tue 26-Feb-19 22:07:15

My hubby thought the same to be honest- he didn’t realise it’s only such a short window- kinda figured you could have sex anytime of the month and get pregnant instantly! No hun!
I think you should sit down and explain to him about TTC and what it involves.
Also make it fun and not formal- dress up for him, send him a sexy text of a day and let him know you want to have sex that evening when he comes home- basically get him excited to do it and not see it as a chore but girl I completely understand how frustrating it can be x

K0013 Tue 26-Feb-19 22:15:41

Men...they don’t really seem to get this whole TTC lark (or maybe I’m being unfair). To be honest I’d rather smack my DH over the head with a frying pan than dtd at the min, lucky we’re not TTC again for a few weeks lol.

smarty14 Wed 27-Feb-19 09:13:29

Thanks ladies! Makes me feel a bit better.
I do try really to not make a chore because really that is boring for us both lol!

Will try not to let it get to boiling and me exploding into an argument!


workinprogressmum Thu 28-Feb-19 17:48:31

So relieved to be reading this. Even being obvious doesn't work at times! It's irritating.

Lemonysherbet Thu 28-Feb-19 17:55:46

I find being really open helps. I literally have to spell it out sometimes. Sad as it takes away the spontaneity but what's needed!

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