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9DPO and feels like AF is coming

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Holly5633 · 19/09/2018 15:12

I’m feeling so sad. I thought we had done everything right this month but I’ve got af cramps and watery Cm like I always get before my period. Still 5 days away but it’s comign early i think. Oh well 😔 it’s tough sometimes isn’t it

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Proseccopanda · 19/09/2018 16:34

AF type cramps can be a sign of pregnancy too, so don't give up hope just yet xx

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Mamabear12 · 19/09/2018 18:28

I know how you feel. I was hoping I had implantation bleeding. It was 3 days of barely anything (just when I wiped some discharge mixed w streak of pink or brown). But this evening it appears to have increased a little (still when I wipe). But feel its also the start of my period. So annoying!!!!!!

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OneMoreWish · 19/09/2018 20:59

Snap 9dpo and had on / off bits of blood on tissue / sanitary towel today and moderate type cramps ( I can definitely feel them but don't need paracetamol)

I'm trying to not get excited about possibility of implantation as I don't want a second wave of disappointment. I did two ic pregnancy tests this evening even though I know they won't tell me anything at this point and will just be negative ( which they were)

It's sad isn't it :(

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Mamabear12 · 20/09/2018 06:03

Thought I had an increase. Well it was once when I wiped at the end of the day some more discharge mixed w pink brown. But then it all disappeared again to nothing, which is very odd. My boobs feel slightly more heavy. I’m now wondering if I’m actually pregnant! Crazy this time period when it’s back and fourth. Tomorrow my actual p is due. So we will see.

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Holly5633 · 20/09/2018 08:29

That sounds really hopeful if it’s gone away. When will you test again?? Good luck. Im finding this TWW so hard. It’s dragging!!

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OneMoreWish · 20/09/2018 08:42

Good luck @Mamabear12 -and everyone else- my period started this morning.
My luteal phase was very short so I might see what I can do to lengthen it...

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Mamabear12 · 20/09/2018 08:52

Thanks onemorewish. I now got more spotting so now worried it’s my period coming. So frustrating. Hate this back and fourth. It’s like either period come, but don’t confuse me for days with ultra light barely there spotting 😡 it’s so frustrating! I also have a short luteal phase. I’m taking b vitamins and will also try to eat more things like salmon, yams etc which are supposed to help fertility and to lengthen it. I will also go for accupunture if I’m not pregnant this month.

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Holly5633 · 20/09/2018 08:52

@onemorewish I had accupuncture and it really helped to regulate my cycle. Would definitely reccommend. Sorry the witch got you x

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catcupcakes · 20/09/2018 09:40

@Holly5633

Don't be bummed out, I felt exactly the same as you. Really watery cm almost wet and lots of cramping. I tested this morning 11dpo and got a very faint positive line on frer. So please keep your chin up x

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Holly5633 · 20/09/2018 09:44

That’s really good to hear and congrats!! Hope that line darkens nicely. I just know that I always get watery CM just before my period so with that and cramps I’m really not sure. Keeping my head up though. There is always next month and it’s suxh a help having lovely ladies like you to keep me going x

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Holly5633 · 21/09/2018 08:44

So I broke and took an internet cheapy this morning... I could see the faintest faintest shadow on it but I’m not sure I expect it was an indent. I’ve still got crsmps. I normally spot from today until af arrived so let’s see what today brings. How’s everyone else’s doing?

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EssJayyCee · 21/09/2018 09:21

9DPO here as well (I think...I had irregular cycles before the pill and only on second cycle since stopping it so unsure what my cycle pattern is but I had a bit of spotting 9 days ago which I think may have been ovulation bleeding) I have been getting alot of headaches and dizzy spells and the occasional twinge in my tummy but not sure if I am just symptom spotting!

Sorry to hear those of you that's got AF! :( Good luck to those still pondering their symptoms! X