3dpo here 🙋🏼 Anyone wanna join me for the TWW?

[Beautifulblue]

No symptom spotting for me this month & no testing until AF is due/late! Anyone in a similar place? 🤞🏼

[fee1234]

Think I will mark my place here but going to try and not get too obsessed this month! Just about to go into TWW, today is O day.
Aiming to test 26th or 27th. Had a chemical last month with symptoms from about 7dpo.

Good luck!

[Beautifulblue]

Good luck to you to @fee1234! Sorry to hear about your chemical, I had one a few months back. 24th/25th test day for me. Also trying not to be to obsessive... we're on holiday for a week from Tuesday so hoping that'll take my mind off it!

[Mseddy]

I'm O day today so I'll join in too :) DH has been away so not managed to DTD much at the right time, so not really expecting miracles!

[Stormwhale]

I think I am either ovulating today, or have done yesterday. So only just starting the tww. I should come on at the end of the month, around the 27th/28th. Same as you I'm not planning on testing before then, and am trying to be nice and relaxed about it. This will be the 3rd cycle of trying, so relatively new really.

How often have you guys managed to dtd? We have on 3 out of the 6 fertile days according to the app I'm using, so I'm hoping that will be enough!

[Mseddy]

We've only managed once because he's working away, he's home tonight though and given today is O day we arnt out the running yet!

[OneMoreWish]

I'm 3dpo too !

More relaxed than previous tries but still doing occasional googling of certain things lol even though I know this week I'm unlikely to feel any different.

I think I normally start going a bit crazy around 6dpo when there is a chance I might start getting symptoms or signs.

Days seem very long at moment x

[Beautifulblue]

Welcome everyone! We managed to DTD on the 9th & 10th O on the 10th-11th. Work commitments stopped it being more but feeling hopeful! @onemorewish yes I'm feeling pretty chilled! But agree it's because there's not much to read into at the point, give it a week 🙈

[Beautifulblue]

@Mseddy def not out the running! Good luck!

[Beautifulblue]

Oh should of added this is only month 2 of trying!

[fee1234]

The chemical last month threw my dates a bit so I wasn't sure when to start DTD.. this month we tried to cover most fertile days and did it every day since last Thurs, so CD 10 - 16. I got my positive OPK yesterday morning (CD16) so we DTD last night and that will be us for this cycle! I still had a positive OPK this morning but my poor DP was worn out from 6 days straight and I'm feeling the same tbh. I think the pressure was starting to get to him too.

If I hadn't tested at 10dpo last month I'd never have known I was pregnant.. but instead we had three days of thinking everything was fine and then the bleeding started! Going to try my hardest and wait until 13 or 14 dpo this time.

[Demiepaige]

Hello 😊 trying for our 3rd baby, 2nd cycle! I’m around 9dpo. Hoping to test this weekend as due on Wednesday. Got very sore boobs so hoping this is a positive sign! Xx

[Mseddy]

I'm feeling chilled about this month because we have a holiday booked for March and if I fell pregnant this month we would have to cancel. So I kind of have a win either way! Obviously I'd love to have to cancel the holiday because this month is the one! But if it isn't we can 100% go away. I think this is keeping me chilled this month, but from next month that won't be a thing any more!

[Beautifulblue]

@Mseddy that's great, really good way to keep you chilled! If you get a negative at least you can fall back on your holiday being secured

Me too @fee1234 which is also why I won't be testing early anymore, just causes more heart break & doesn't change the out come! So patience is the key from now on.

Good luck @Demiepaige we are trying for #2 we have a 14 month old daughter.

What about you other ladies? Is this 1,2,3 etc for you?

[Mseddy]

This is number 1 for us. Been trying since July (Not long at all I know), but we already have PMH complicating things so I'm not very hopeful!

[Demiepaige]

@beautifulblue thank you, I have 2 daughters already aged 2&1 I’m hoping for a close age gap. My husband is desparate for a boy as he has another daughter with an ex partner who is also a girl! She’s 3 😂 xx

[Trying93]

Im 3dpo too. Trying for about 7/8 months for number 1

[Beautifulblue]

Well hoping we see at least 1 BFP at the end of this thread! Fingers crossed ladies... 🤞🏼

[fee1234]

I'm also TTC my first baby. Currently on 2nd cycle!

[rollerskaterdata]

I'm 3dpo too! 🙋‍♀️ TTC #2, cycle 2. Did SMEP, used clearblue digital advanced OPKs to track ovulation and preseed! Hoping this is the month for all of us! X

[Beautifulblue]

Ooo a few of us trying for #2 on cycle 2! Sounds like you've done the work @rollerskaterdata (love your user name btw) good luck!

[rollerskaterdata]

Oh and I went crazy symptom spotting last month, had every symptom under the sun and wasn't pregnant anyway! Will not be symptom spotting from now on ha! Afraid I'm an early tester though, from around 12dpo onwards. I want to know early even if it's a chemical, I know that sounds strange but it's almost a strange comfort for me that my body is still working and can still get pregnant. Appreciate that's not the same for everyone though. Baby dust galore for all of us! xx

[rollerskaterdata]

@Beautifulblue he he thanks hun! Yep it does look that way doesn't it! Hoping we get a flurry of sticky BFPs this month! X

[rollerskaterdata]

Oh and I should caveat this is how I feel about early testing at the moment! This of course could change if I ever got a chemical, I just have this strange irrational fear right now that for some reason I may never get pregnant again 😕 ok I'll stop posting now! 🤦‍♀️

[Mamabear12]

I will join. I’m not sure if I got my ovulation day right. We tried once Monday night and I was guessing ovulation Tuesday or Wednesday. This is my third and the last two pregnancies I guess right. But last month is when we first started trying for our third and as it didn’t work - I’m now not sure when I ovulate! Esp as I have 2-3 days of spotting before my period begins and from research online it says you don’t count these days.

[Beautifulblue]

Don't need to apologise @rollerskaterdata all our brains work in different ways! Totally understand the fear of not getting pregnant again. Felt too good to be true the first time, feels the same this time. Even though I do have living proof my uterus worked once currently pulling my hair, it doesn't make me anymore confident this time! But yes let's make this a cautiously optimistic thread anyway!