I posted last month too...I was so sure it was our month. But apparently not. My body just likes to play tricks on me, clearly. (Short version-day late/VERY light bleeding/no usual symptoms/4 wasted pee sticks/convinced...BFN. 4 times).
So, this month I'm hoping my 'no pressure approach' to getting my BFP might actually work. My (very frustrated) other half and I DTD on CD11/12 (Early morning. Veeeeeery early) then he left the city for 6 weeks with work. I had a positive OPK on CD 14 (I forgot to test CD13) and then a negative CD15. I had O type cramps CD14. is it possible to get a positive on ovulation day-google keeps giving me different answers (said the girl who is attempting a 'no pressure' approach).
Am I out this month? I'm not buying countless tests. I am trying not to symptom check. And I'm planning on not being pregnant for at least 6 weeks (plus creating time for my so longed for number 2). But I am curious...
Has anyone out there had a BFP with similar time frames from DTD to ovulation? 6 weeks is a long time to go with no second line and no time to try again. I feel like this is actually taking over my whole life. And every month a little bit of me just gives up. Someone give me some hope
Ah, thank you for replying. That gives me hope. Were you trying for long before your BFP?
I think I was feeling particularly fed up when I posted the message. My life is not ruined. I have a beautiful daughter who I’m very lucky to have. I’m just frustrated with not having it easy this time round x
I tried tracking my temperature-but not for about 6 months. I had quite a busy work life then so wasn’t very good if I’m honest. I thought I had my cycle down to a tee. Maybe I’m just completely out? It’s so demotivating getting nowhere! X
@Wellthisunexpected you can say no, but can I be really cheeky and ask the sex of your DC? I want to see if the theory of dtd before ovulation more likely to be a girl and at the time then more likely a boy, is true 😊 x
Well this gives me hope! I’m still sticking to what I said and not planning on testing until AF is late. I’m not even googling symptoms as much as I normally do (you ever feel like you’ve read a web page a hundred times already?!🙈) and I’m just being very calm and patient...for now. Your messages give me hope. Thank you ladies xx