Hi everyone,
I am after some advice and would be grateful to anyone who could help.
I turned 40 last year, I have been with my partner for 14 months now. I live with him and his two children who I am very close too. My partners two girls aged 11 and 14 live with us. They have been living with their father for about 5 years now. The mother has issues and deserted them but is now back on the scene, she has a relationship with the youngest but the eldest doesn't want anything to do with her. Their mother has recently had a baby and the eldest is devastated. I would love to have a baby however the eldest is so against us doing it.. also the family have said it would mess up the eldest head more than it is already and they would be very concerned for her. We have tried talking to her but she comes across very angry and said she would not speak to her dad again.
I love his children as my own but I really want to have my own baby :-( I'm so upset that his family feel I would be causing such upset to my partners eldest I just don't know what to do.
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40, wanting a baby but family not being supportive
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LouCharlie1 · 23/02/2018 14:50
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