So my niece has just announced she’s pregnant she’s going to be a very young mum and I am jealous and and I can’t say it out loud. I wish it was me and I feel like a failure that we’ve been trying since year and nothing
Please don't feel bad, it's completely normal to feel the way you do. I had a miscarriage in September and it has felt like every other woman I know pregnant. A friend of mine had a little girl 2 weeks ago and I cried for hours when I found out. I felt jealous and selfish then too but lovely people here picked me up and helped me through x
Totally normal. Long term ttc’er here too and my little sister announced her unplanned pregnancy with her boyfriend of 10 months back in July. Her bump is huge, she’s complaining about not being able to go on the sunbeds and putting up tweets about how in love she is and how mummy and daddy can’t wait to meet the baby. Kills me every day. Sending you hugs
I 100% understand! My (lovely) sister in law had twins the same week that I would have had my 12 week scan if my pregnancy had continued. I cried when I found out, not from happiness but from jealousy and sadness. I was shaking when I went to meet them in hospital but luckily those feelings turned to love & happiness when I met them.
It seems like everywhere I look there's someone announcing a pregnancy or birth, it's so hard not to be jealous
Totally normal, I've been trying 2 years for #1, found it very, very hard the last year and more so now I've had a mc with our first bfp. Just allow yourself to feel sad for yourself and get all the emotions out on here! You'll then find it easier to put on a happy face for people, which I find then turns into genuine happiness after a little while.