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TTC after pregnancy loss - thread 15 - Christmas miracles

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TheGrumpySquirrel Fri 01-Dec-17 09:46:21

New thread!

TheGrumpySquirrel Fri 01-Dec-17 09:47:13

Hugs and supportive chat for those TTC after miscarriage or pregnancy loss ♥️

weasledee Fri 01-Dec-17 09:51:39

Love the thread name smile x

SoozC Fri 01-Dec-17 11:14:10

Signing in.

So thankful to have this wonderful group of ladies who understand what I'm going through. xx

WishfulThinking27 Fri 01-Dec-17 11:15:54

Signing in. Hope December brings some of us a nice sticky BFP for Christmas!

Zoo33 Fri 01-Dec-17 11:20:10

Thanks @TheGrumpySquirrel ! Great thread name. Fingers and toes crossed for everyone. X

TheGrumpySquirrel Fri 01-Dec-17 12:36:17

I think I ovulated yesterday, or possibly today going by cervix which is now max open, but no DTD since yesterday morning as we are being "relaxed" about it this month hmm and both feeling grim with the beginnings of colds! I figured it's not going to work anyway so better to chill out wait for fertility results and both start the new year determined to get healthier.

My due date was next Sunday. Feeling okay about it coming closer, but other days I'm a wreck. Had a few more pregnancy announcements at work but didn't bother me in the same way as my unexpected friend did.

di626 Fri 01-Dec-17 13:09:08

Ah love the new name .. lets hope so!!!

Hope everyone doing ok xx

Having a better day today, my first due date also next weekend so hopefully my mood keeps up!! Im on cd 11 but feel like im ovulating, have similar niggle in side which i usually get & had ton of EWCM, i usually dont ovulate until between cd 16-18 so i am not prepared - have not DTD, may get at busy after work lol!! Anyone ever had an early ovulation?

TheGrumpySquirrel Fri 01-Dec-17 13:12:55

Di the earliest I've ever had was cd15, and I'm a day 17-19 person. It's possible I guess!

TheGrumpySquirrel Fri 01-Dec-17 13:13:35

I usually get ewcm for 5-7 days before ov by the way.

TheGrumpySquirrel Fri 01-Dec-17 13:14:08

The twinges could be follicles , I get it cd12.

di626 Fri 01-Dec-17 13:17:09

@TheGrumpySquirrel goodness knows ... will do ov test when get home to see & hope i have few more days so we can get in few sessions 🙈🙈

LookingAtTheStars89 Fri 01-Dec-17 13:33:16

I am on cd22 and I still have a fair bit of cm. My period isn't due for another week but I usually get a large pimple followed by other little pimples on my face appear a few days before but no signs of them yet.
I don't mean to be tmi but I have noticed the last couple of days that not only to I have lady garden mucus I also have throat mucus! I read that an increase in nasal mucus can be a gross but good sign lol.

di626 Fri 01-Dec-17 13:37:13

@LookingAtTheStars89 ... everything crossed for you!!!

TheGrumpySquirrel Fri 01-Dec-17 14:10:24

Increased cm is definitely a good sign. I've only ever had lotiony wet cm when I've been pregnant in the TWW. Otherwise sticky and dry pretty much from 1-2dpo

Flatwhite32 Fri 01-Dec-17 17:42:29

Thanks for setting up the new thread @TheGrumpySquirrel. I love the name, and am certainly hoping for a miracle with this one. I don't have much nausea now, so my hopes are fading.

LookingAtTheStars89 Fri 01-Dec-17 17:45:33

@TheGrumpySquirrel. Yeah usually I'm as dry as a nun after the big O and weeping like my life is a Greek tragedy for a week before flo is due lol.

LookingAtTheStars89 Fri 01-Dec-17 17:46:14

@Flatwhite32 flowers

whyhastherumgone Fri 01-Dec-17 17:52:00

Hi everyone, can I join? Got a BFP back in July - all went amazingly well (after a miscarriage in December 2016) until our 20 week scan when a severe heart defect was found. We had to have a tfmr a week later, and are now waiting for the results from some genetic tests we have had to see if one of us carry a gene which causes it, or whether any other reason can be found.
Although I am not TTC right now I know it's going to be difficult for me to get my head around the fear I'm going to face next time after all this, so I'm trying to gear myself up for it. I'm hoping the results come back as the defect was a complete fluke and we can start trying again in the new year. Just hoping my period and everything goes back to normal quite quickly too.
So my christmas miracle would be getting the test results we want, or at least some kind of largely positive outcome so we can start TTC in earnest as soon as we are ready.
I was on this thread back in July, and it was so helpful then, so hoped you wouldn't mind me coming in early this time. At the moment I just feel fear at the idea of trying again, but hopefully I will overcome this in time.

Good luck to everyone, I really hope you get your Christmas miracles smile

whyhastherumgone Fri 01-Dec-17 17:52:44

Hello @flatwhite31 - just seen you on here, we were on the July bus together originally. I hope you are doing okay, I've thought about you often x

di626 Fri 01-Dec-17 19:22:11

@whyhastherumgone omg that is so sad, so sorry for your loss 😪.

@Flatwhite32 hopefully its one of those things that maybe you are convincing urself nausea fading? 💕

Flatwhite32 Fri 01-Dec-17 19:23:16

Oh my goodness @whyhastherumgone yes we were on that thread together. I'm so so sorry to read your sad news. You poor love. How are you coping overall? Sending so much love. Xxx
I'm pregnant again but had some bleeding. I had a scan on Wed that put my dates nearly a week behind, and all that was visible was a gestational sac and a yolk sac. I'm going back for a scan in ten days to see if it's viable, as it's currently 50/50. I'm not holding out much hope!

Dandelion89 Fri 01-Dec-17 22:02:13

Loving the new name smilexx

Martydog Fri 01-Dec-17 22:31:15

Great name let's hope we all get our Christmas or new year miracles.

NoCatsHere Fri 01-Dec-17 22:41:05

Just checking in. grumpy thankyou so much for the new thread and the name is just perfect, excellent choice.
flat glad you have some hope, try not to think about symptoms, you’ve said yourself before it doesn’t mean anything. I know that’s easier said then done though!

rumgone I’m so sorry you’ve had such a shitty time. Welcome to this lovely supportive group. I hope you get the test results back soon.

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