I’ve been ttc number 2 for some time, and have just this month gone back to using OPKs (abandoned them as was never getting a positive - but am ovulating as I have been tested at docs)
Anyway, tracking my ov symptoms, ie cm and pains, I seemed to be ovulating mid cycle so thought all was normal. But I still haven’t had a positive OPK this month (I’m on CD 19 now) but my darkest lines were around CD 17/18. My cycle is usually between 24 and 27 days. So if I’m not ovulating until later does this mean I’m unlikely to be able to get pregnant? Could this be why it isn’t working for us this time. I’m on cycle 15 btw
I did ask about it when I went, about 6 months ago, as I was having the same issues with OPKs. She was quite dismissive of them, saying they can’t be trusted, and to just keep having regular sex throughout my cycle. Which we do.
The thing is, and the reason I don’t think I’m going to go back again is we that even if there are problems with either me or DH, we probably won’t do anything about it anyway. I don’t think we will qualify for fertility treatment on the NHS as we already have a DC, and we are pushing 40. We have decided that if it doesn’t happen by the end of the year we will probably just knock it on the head and come to terms with DS being an only. For a number of reasons. So this month and next month are our last desperate attempts!
I’m in a similar situation to you regarding short lp. I’ve heard vitamin b6 can be helpful. I plan on starting acupuncture soon to help me relax. I don’t think I’ve ovulated this month which is frustrating.
Have you tried taking your temperature to ascertain when you've ovulated? Other than that, I definitely recommend B complex. I've heard of some ladies on here using something else to extend luteal phase but I can't remember what it's called, sorry. It's along the lines of agnes castus (a quick google didn't throw anything up!) but if you search on here about LPD, I'm sure you'll find it. Good luck!
I’ve also discovered I have a shirt luteal phase of 8-9 days. I have 26 day cycle and usually ovulate on CD17 So beginning of this cycle I started taking vitamin b6 with a vitamin b complex. Also sharted taking vitamin c & d .. this month I ovulated 3 days earlier than normal (wether it’s to do with the vitamins I’ll never know) af is due Tuesday (as long my my cycle isn’t shorter with ovulating sooner) praying this is my month x
No problem @dandelion89 I’ve been taking 100mg vitamin b6 , 50g vitamin c, I’m unsure what the complex b Vitamin is but just 1 tablet per day and the same with the combined folic acid with vitamin d . Thanks but I think I’m out this month bfn today and af is due tomorrow
I discovered I had this when I was TTC#2. It scared the hell out of me!! I was convinced I wouldn't get pregnant then after 9 cycles I did! I don't know if it helped, but 1 day before I ovulated I went to a spa for the day and totally relaxed. I also started taking the 7 seas TTC pills which had been recommended to me and I conceived within 2 cycles of going on them. Certainly worth a try - don't despair yet!! X