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Anyone got negative FRER at 12DPO

(25 Posts)
TheGrumpySquirrel Sun 12-Nov-17 13:46:44

I caved and bought more FRER, desperate for it to be my month even though all the signs are against me.

I just tortured myself by watching one develop. I normally do this, rather than just look after 3 mins, but usually there is nothing happening even during development. This time there was a line! Then once fully developed, no line! FFS I know it’s probably just the dye being pulled over the indent but of course it means I start hoping again. At 12DPO a FRER should be a clear positive so please talk me down??

(Ovulated on cd17 confirmed by temps. Temp still up but doesn’t mean much at 12DPO. Af due tomorrow/Tuesday.)

TheGrumpySquirrel Sun 12-Nov-17 13:47:38

Sorry title should say.., and still been pregnant grin

AnneLovesGilbert Sun 12-Nov-17 13:49:41

Me! I've never had a bfp before cd13. Had a bfn on a frer then a bfp a day later. Good luck smile

TheGrumpySquirrel Sun 12-Nov-17 13:53:32

Thank you Anne! How are you doing these days?

OhWifey Sun 12-Nov-17 13:56:24

There's a line there. Tentative congratulations

AnneLovesGilbert Sun 12-Nov-17 14:02:10

I'm alright thanks grumpy, cracking on. No bfp since last mc in Feb. Fx for you!

TheGrumpySquirrel Sun 12-Nov-17 14:28:56

Thanks a lot Anne. I hope you get your BFP soon. Are you having investigations now? I’m seeing my GP on Friday as it will soon be a year of trying for us.

PrimeraVez Sun 12-Nov-17 15:36:35

I don’t want to get your hopes up (as someone who’s had a couple of MCs I’m a grumpy realist 😄) but I feel like I can see something. 🤞🏼

TheGrumpySquirrel Sun 12-Nov-17 15:42:23

Thanks guys.. I see the line but I don’t think it counts as it had disappeared by the 3 min full development time

IceBearRocks Sun 12-Nov-17 15:49:06

I see it!!!!

Justwaitingforaline Sun 12-Nov-17 15:53:03

I had this the other day, grumpy! It disappeared when 3 minutes had passed but was there while developing. Very odd.

Hulaballoo Sun 12-Nov-17 15:54:37

I can see a line ...

Somethininthewater Sun 12-Nov-17 17:11:11

Me... possibly 12dpo today. Peed on a frer and zilch. Kicking myself for not waiting until tomorrow morning(which was the plan when I bought the bloody things)! I also could be 28dpo. Opks reckon I ovulated twice in a cycle! Fun times!
Itchy boobs today and cranky as hell... and enough cm to sink a ship! Deeeelicious!

Somethininthewater Sun 12-Nov-17 17:13:24

My eyesight is rubbish, so I have to take a photo of my tests and zoom in! Just had another look at this, potentially a tiny line? Eyes please

TheGrumpySquirrel Sun 12-Nov-17 18:06:11

@Somethininthewater I really can’t tell if there is something or not on yours. This is what mine looked like after it finished developing. I’ve got normal pre AF CM so not getting my hopes up at all.

BifsWif Sun 12-Nov-17 18:15:07

I can see the line on the first test, but nothing on the second.

Hoping for a clear positive in the morning for you x

BifsWif Sun 12-Nov-17 18:15:33

Sorry, I thought the second picture was yours too OP!

DaenerysismyQueen Sun 12-Nov-17 20:28:23

Just got a BFN at 12dpo and a BFP 14 dpo this month. Still a bit worried as it was a faint line but fingers crossed.

TheGrumpySquirrel Sun 12-Nov-17 20:38:32

Ooh fingers crossed for you @DaenerysismyQueen !! Congratulations smile

TheGrumpySquirrel Mon 13-Nov-17 05:50:50

Temp dropped this morning so AF should be here shortly 😔

Presh12345 Mon 13-Nov-17 06:43:36

Did an frer this morning and a bfn. Was convinced as have been exhausted and the worst sore boobs ever which I NEVER get. 😢

Nikki2ol6 Mon 13-Nov-17 08:03:52

Hi I just wanted to say this happened to me at 8-9dpo. It hadn’t been happening previously (I’m one of those obsessed testers) so when it happened I took another and it was the same, white line there but gone by 3 minuets. I made my partner take one and his didn’t do that. I googled does it mean it’s found hcg but not strong enough yet for a faint pink line, I found nothing’s. I tested again in 4 hours and to my shock there was a very faint second line. My lines got darker as the days went on and on 11-12dpo I had some spotting and thought for sure I was about to have a chemical pregnancy. However it stopped and I’m around 17dpo with very dark lines

TheGrumpySquirrel Mon 13-Nov-17 08:53:43

Thanks Nikki I’ve been obsessively googling too and the consensus seems to be that this often happens with FRER while they are developing but it doesn’t mean anything as it’s just the dye going over the white indent. I think you got lucky x

TheGrumpySquirrel Mon 13-Nov-17 08:54:28

Obviously I will keep you all updated but not holding out any hope given the temp drop this morning! Have a pad on waiting for AF to show.

TheGrumpySquirrel Tue 14-Nov-17 10:14:35

Another bfn this morning and just started pink spotting (14dpo) so I’m out 😔

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