Tips for dealing with DH...

[AliBunny]

Firstly, I just wanted to say how awesome this forum is. It's so great to be able to connect with other like minded people, I have learnt so much and it genuinely makes the whole TTC experience slightly less lonely being able to keep connected with you guys.

'Lonely' you say..? ... quite an odd word to use given that me and DH are DTD more than usual... ?

..but it's how I feel sometimes.

I read this forum in secret, deleting the history on the iPad when I'm finished!

I have tried to engage him in the detail of TTC - the cycles, the tracking, what we need to do etc... but he just clams up whenever I mention it.

He is scared that he won't be fertile so I think he just ignores the topic.. but I can't help but think the whole experience would be slightly more successful and maybe even enjoyable if we faced it together.

Has anyone else faced similar challenges? Any top tips..?

[Santawontbelong]

Best tip would be to keep the technical stuff to yourself and just let him think you want to jump his bones because he is irresistible not that you are ovulating!!
Too much pressure and he won't be able to perform when you need it!!