Had a 1 to 1 with a director today and it has made me rethink/doubt myself.
We are TTC, two cycles down so far. Been in my job six months or so and it's not as great as I'd hoped, my manager isn't great and his manager is also quite micro managery. I was asked within a few months when I might go off on mat leave (I'm 25 and got married last year) which hasn't impressed me. I get virtually no feedback, apparently 'being told nothing means nothing is wrong' which doesn't really float my boat, but you win some you lose some. It's generally OK, not overly stimulating at times but has its moments and I like it.
I was torn over whether to wait to the next rung up to TTC but work being a bit pants made us TTC sooner. Chat with director has spurred me on a bit and made me think should I hold off? Next rung up would be an extra £350 net in my pocket a month, quite considerable. Apparently they don't expect me to do current role more than a year - 18 months anyway. No option to do PT in my sector so will always be full time, kids or not.
Equally, how long do you think you need to be in a job before you TTC, especially a more taxing one? I'd have been in this one a year before I went off if I got PG now which seems reasonable, but I don't know.
Wasn't sure where else to post. As lame as it is I'm a bit disheartened realising how long TTC could take, and am struggling with my mood since coming off the pill, I'm a right grumpy cow
Any advice/views? I think we want 1-2 DC, I know they'll never be a right time. Equally the job in six months - a year could be a secondment and there's no point waiting unless it'd be permanent...
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Torn! Hold off TTC or sod it?
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Florence16 · 21/08/2017 19:15
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