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AF 4 days late, thick milky discharge, BFN

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user13345556 Sun 14-May-17 19:12:58

Been trying to conceive for 6 months since 2 consecutive miscarriages. Period is now 4 days late but still getting bfn's!! I keep thinking my period is coming as I keep getting gushes of milky discharge!

I'm wracking my brains here and don't know what is going on! Also have lower back pain and the odd cramp here and there! Anyone else ever experienced this& what was the outcome?

I feel being pregnant is out the windowsadSurely a hpt would show a bfp by now?

Frazzled2207 Mon 15-May-17 10:17:58

I am a veteran of those tests. Don't want to get your hopes up but I see a faint line on that second batch, not the first though.
Fingers crossed, would not say it's enough of a line to be definitive. If you can bear waiting for 2 days between tests, next time should be a lot clearer.
Don't try the digital ones at this stage, I'd put money on them saying "not pregnant" as they are less sensitive than the cheapies.

Unfortunately I did find that ttc did weird and cruel things to my cycles to make me think I might be pregnant when in fact I wasn't. I'm hopeful that you might have a definite line in a day or two. flowers

happilyeverafta Mon 15-May-17 10:20:56

I can see a line on both those tests.

Hoping it gets stronger for you! X

user13345556 Mon 15-May-17 10:23:05

I am defiantly not getting my hopes us just yet, If I get a stronger line in a couple of days then maybe

NoWordForFluffy Mon 15-May-17 10:23:07

ICs are dire. Find yourself a FRER; I bet you'll get a nice dark line on one of those!

Good luck. 🍀

wakkapaca Mon 15-May-17 10:49:01

I think it looks positive! Don't waste your money on clear blue they have never worked for me even when I was 4 months pregnant! I only use pink dye tests! Get a Superdrug own brand they are amazing! Xx

user13345556 Mon 15-May-17 11:07:22

Ino I said I would wait till tomorrow but I've just tested again, I got a urge again. The funeral director is here for my nan and I ran the loo. I now have a strong positive. I can't stop crying

Frazzled2207 Mon 15-May-17 11:20:14

Bless you. Yes superdrug ones are a good alternative to try and very clear!

Gemxo Mon 15-May-17 11:46:07


user13345556 Mon 15-May-17 11:46:48

Gemxo - that is me btw and that's the test I've just done!! Eyes!?

Frazzled2207 Mon 15-May-17 11:54:27

Definitely upduffed.

user13345556 Mon 15-May-17 12:18:54

I can't believe it, it's my mums birthday today and they have just had to register the death. She said this is the worst birthday and she will always hate her birthday now after this day, should I tell her? Make this a happy day? Or would you still wait

Frazzled2207 Mon 15-May-17 12:27:21

I would tell your mum if you feel she'd like to know. You are pg but it's vv early days.

BettySmut Mon 15-May-17 12:35:37

That certainly looks positive!

Gemxo Mon 15-May-17 12:41:15

Maybe not as early days as I thought, look how strong this one is. I'm in utter shock

Juno2002 Mon 15-May-17 12:48:59

I've been getting very similar lines on ICs. I've done a few and they're getting slightly darker each day. I've read that you can be VERY pregnant and still only get rubbish lines on those tests. But I did an FRER yesterday and there's definitely two lines on it so would definitely recommend!

Juno2002 Mon 15-May-17 12:49:51

p.s. Congratulations!

Mumofawarrior12 Mon 15-May-17 12:53:30

Aww what wonderful news so happy for you hun. I would tell your mum it may help xx

DT2016 Mon 15-May-17 12:59:26

Congratulations 🎉

user13345556 Mon 15-May-17 14:12:43

Praying for a healthy pregnancy & baby now

purplechoc Mon 15-May-17 15:08:28

Congratulations! flowers

I would tell her with the caution of how early it is smile. I think it's okay to tell someone who would support you if something happened after today anyway. You're pregnant today though so enjoy!

resipsa Mon 15-May-17 16:41:08

Congratulations! I say tell her too (as someone who tried for ages and got pregnant when husband was in the middle of chemo) as it will give her something to hold on to that is positive.

18mnthsandcounting Mon 15-May-17 17:14:10

Amazing news so pleased for you!

Gemxo Tue 16-May-17 09:00:08

Progression since yesterday, bottom one from this morning. Are the lines getting darker I can't tell I stare for too long haha!

Still thinking bfp??

purplechoc Tue 16-May-17 09:16:58

They look like they're getting darker to me! Have you thought about doing a first response? I got a clear line on one 6 days before af

user13345556 Wed 17-May-17 09:15:23

My positive line is now darker than the control line, we are so happy. Going by the test how many weeks would you say I am, my last AF was 9th April. I did think I had ovulated late but maybe not?

See 2 tests compared over 2 days

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