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Feeling really distressed 😭

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holzyb20 · 25/04/2017 20:32

Feeling so emotional at the minute everyone around me is pregnant or had their babies, a friend of mine who has never wanted children has just had a baby by a one night stand, why can people get pregnant so easily yet iv tried for 3 years and nothing 😭 feeling like my time will never come, I hate going out to events (weddings, birthdays ect..) because it's always the same dreaded questions "when are the babies coming, are you trying yet, do you not want one" YES I F*ING WANT ONE its just not happening 💔

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Hotpinkangel19 · 25/04/2017 20:35

I have no advice but just wanted to send a hug xxx Flowers

Chattycat78 · 25/04/2017 20:41

I would post this on the infertility board if I were you. More likely to find people in similar boat.

WelshMammy123 · 25/04/2017 20:46

Hi,

I'm so sorry you're feeling as you do and I totally get it! We tried for 3.5 years before finally falling pregnant with dd and I remember counting up that there had been 16 babies born in our friendship group whilst we were trying - some of our friends had had 2. It was heartbreaking.

Have you had any tests at all? Have they been able to identify a reason why it's not happened for you yet? X

holzyb20 · 25/04/2017 20:50

Hi thank for all replies needed to vent I think.

Iv got pcos I kind of just knew I had it for a while I just never went to the doctors I wa's always convinced I'd conceive naturally but obviously it hasn't happened I finally got diagnosed a year ago and have just started having bloods to check if I ovulate (pretty sure I dont) and the doctor will go from there really. I just wanted it to feel natural :(

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