Okay so I'm only 4dpo but feeling rubbish, nauseous, bloated, sore boobs, two nights ago I had the worst cramping I've had and it felt like someone was scratching my uterus.... I'm super tired am I coming down with a flu,m or having really early symptoms or have I lost the plot?
4 dpo is too early even for implantation, sorry! You would have literally no symptoms this early. I think ttc sends a lot of people a little (am I allowed to say...) crazy with symptom spotting. You may get pregnant this month but whatever you're feeling now has nothing to do with it. Easy for me to say but try to relax, ignore random twinges etc, have a glass of wine and wait for another week or so!