Hello
Just what my title says really- am starting to get on a complete downer now. Had a MMC at 13 weeks last summer and it's been over 6 months TTC since then.
I know this is "normal" in terms of timescales but I feel as if I have been playing "catch up" to try and become pregnant again quickly following the MMC, but I can feel the months are slipping away and having another baby feels further from reach.
Over the last couple of days, I've seen photos of a few friends who are now into their 3rd trimester and expecting in the next few months.
This really hit home how much time has gone by.
I can't help but think and calculate- if I had become pregnant at the end of the summer, that would be me right now. It's hit me hard by seeing them blooming, lovely & pregnant....this is just in photos they have sent/put on FB (I don't see them often as they live abroad).
Of course I am happy for them, but cannot help but feel sorry for myself.
When I had the MMC last summer, we were devastated but a part of me was positive as I'd fallen pregnant straight away 2 times previously and I hoped that this would be the case again.
It helped keep me going at the worst time and it actually felt exciting to get a negative PT as it meant it was all over and we could start TTC.
The end of 2016 was tough as my due date had passed and I had reassured myself that I'd likely be pregnant again by the time Dec 2016 rolled around, sadly not to be.
Sorry this thread is all about me, me, me...I cannot help slipping into a negative way of thinking, seeing pregnant women all around is not helping either, even though I realise that it has no impact on MY baby.
I also realise how lucky I am to already have a child, aged 2 nearly 3.
Any tips from others on how to cope with things? especially anyone aged 35 or over. My age adds another dimension of concern to the whole situation.
Thank you
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TurquoiseDress · 01/02/2017 08:07
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