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Allyouneedisloveandadog Tue 10-May-16 06:29:39

Hi. This is my first post so please be kind.
I came off the pill in November and this is our first proper month of ttc.
AF was due at some point this weekend just gone ( been a bit irregular since coming off pill) and I had a bleed and cramps on Friday so thought that was it starting.
However since that day I haven't had anything else. I have had it stop for a couple of days in the past and then start again but it's been 4 days and nothing!
I really need to poas but I'm scared to which I know sounds ridiculous. A part of me just thinks that I can't possibly be pregnant in the first month of trying.

If I haven't had any more bleeding by Friday night then I will have to be brave and poas. I sound pathetic don't I but I don't want to get my hopes up. This ttc stuff is stressful!

Hadagutsful Tue 10-May-16 06:54:28

Didn't want to read and run. Nothing helpful to say as it sounds like you already have a plan figured out! And of course you know it absolutely is possible to conceive in your first month of trying. smile good luck, I hope you get the result you're wishing for!

Snooksbury Tue 10-May-16 19:55:25

Have you tested yet? I think it's natural not to want to get your hopes up. If you aren't normally 4 days late there's a good chance you might be... !

Allyouneedisloveandadog Wed 11-May-16 06:34:16

Not yet but still no sign of AF. Keep thinking a feel a bit sick but don't know if I'm just imagining it.

Lazyafternoon Wed 11-May-16 09:26:32

Good luck!!!

Snooksbury Wed 11-May-16 19:12:50

Looks promising then! Are you still planning on testing on Friday? Can't believe you are so patient to wait that long grin

Stars66 Wed 11-May-16 19:24:28

Poas please! How can you possible wait?
I tried TTC this month too and AF is due in 4 days, I want to poas now!

Allyouneedisloveandadog Wed 11-May-16 21:05:40

I'll just be so disappointed if it is negative. I might test in the morning. I'll let you know!

Snooksbury Wed 11-May-16 21:41:13

Will keep my fingers crossed for you!

Stars66 Wed 11-May-16 23:10:59

Good luck!

indecisivedoctor Wed 11-May-16 23:16:00

Totally understand allyouneeed. Come over and join us on the "hoping for a BFP in May" thread. Lots of support there.

A few days ago I was you- afraid to POAS. I think because whilst you don't have that bfn you can hold on to your hope.. I finally did the test Monday (5 days after AF due) and got a positive smile

Wish you luck. X

Allyouneedisloveandadog Thu 12-May-16 06:15:15

BFP!! I'm in shock!!!!

readingrainbow Thu 12-May-16 06:19:00


AliceScarlett Thu 12-May-16 06:19:29

Congratulations smileflowerssmile

youknowwhattodo Thu 12-May-16 06:20:26

Congrats flowersflowersflowers

Allyouneedisloveandadog Thu 12-May-16 06:34:18

Thanks! Can't wait to see dh face when I tell him later. I told him on Friday that AF had come so it's going to be a real shock.

Snooksbury Thu 12-May-16 07:09:58

Haha, I knew it!! Congratulations!!! flowers

indecisivedoctor Thu 12-May-16 07:17:20

Yay! Fab news. Enjoy telling your DH. Xx

Flossiesmummy Thu 12-May-16 11:53:10

Lovely news! flowers

Stars66 Thu 12-May-16 19:26:07

Amazing! Congratulations! Now pls send that bfp my way wink

Allyouneedisloveandadog Fri 13-May-16 06:21:11

AF arrived this morning so guessing it was a chemical pregnancy. Oh well. At least I know I am ovulating as that was what I was worrying about after being on the pill for so long. Thanks for all the lovely messages.

indecisivedoctor Fri 13-May-16 16:45:20

So sorry allyouneeed as you say definitely a positive in having conceived but must be so disappointing all he same. wine for you. Xxx

readingrainbow Fri 13-May-16 17:42:33

Hugs to you.

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