Sorry if this is long and hard to understand, I'm tired from overthinking all night and I don't understand ovulation etc at all.
So I've been saying to DP for a while that I want a baby with him but we agreed to wait. He didn't seem keen on the idea of "letting go of his youth" for a little while but then became more comfortable with the idea of actually talking about having a child etc and he now comfortably admits he wants a child.
We didn't really say "let's try" or anything so we've still been using protection (aside from two episodes which gets explained in a bit). I tried reading up on the various websites and read other stories so I could be prepared but it got very confusing.
I wanted to give myself a seriously good head start before we decided to TTC so I knew what I was getting into and could change my mind or make sure we were all prepared health wise. I'd need to stop vaping and start eating healthier/taking folic acid etc.
Then late last night I had a small bleed. I'm not sure if the bleeding has stopped now (there was still some this morning) but it was mostly brown/dark red. I only had my last period just over a week ago so it shouldn't be that. Then I thought, what if it was implantation bleeding... I did an ovulation calculator to see if it could be that and apparently I should have started ovulating on friday. We did the do on friday night but we used protection (although DP tried not to for about 15 seconds so there is a 15 second gap in which I could have conceived... seems unlikely). I read up on when implantation bleeding can happen and on the good old unreliable internet it said that I would most likely get implantation bleeding 6-12 days after the egg was fertilised.. which then prompted me remembering that DP decided to use the old fashioned pulling out method last week. It kinda all ties in if I did conceive last week except, according to the calculator, I wouldn't have ovulated a day after my period finished...
Please can anyone who understands ovulation help me with this? Could I have ovulated a day after my period ended? Could I have implantation bleeding 2 days after having sex? or is this bleeding something else entirely? which seems the most likely here?
Also, how long after implantation bleeding would I get a + test result (assuming I were pregnant)? I don't want to waste a £14 clearblue that I have in the cupboard if it wouldn't even show up on a test yet. I've read some people saying to wait until next period is due, and others saying they waited 24-48 hours after the implantation bleeding...
Many thanks if you held on this far. I'm tired and so confused right now.
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getyourfingeroutyournose · 25/04/2016 11:54
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