Am I the only one?

[nataliefruit]

This sounds stupid and I feel stupid asking but now my husband has said let's have a baby I am actually really scared!! Am I the only one? I've been wanting a baby for a while but DH hasn't been ready and now he's ready I'm quite scared! I keep thinking I've not lost any weight, I don't exercise except to walk the dogs & just don't know that my body is ready.

Maybe I'm just over thinking it!

[Zoefitness]

Your over thinking it.
I begged my OH for a baby for three years with no joy until two years later and then once I had thought about it, I just thought agh I don't feel ready for it, do I even want it. I haven't been travelling yet, I'm still working hard in my career etc. etc.

I'm sure within the next few weeks, once the anxiety has calmed down, you'll feel excited about Ttc. Then you might even start to obsess like the majority of us on here, in the 2ww.

Don't over think it. X

[nataliefruit]

Thanks Zoefitness. I know you're right, I am really excited as well just scared at the same time! :)

[Zoefitness]

I think that it's totally normal to be scared nataliefruit. I think that when I eventually get a bfp, I'll probably go through it over again.