Quick question for mums of daughters, hope this is a good/relevant section to post...
I have just (today!) found out I am about 4 weeks pg. Obv extremely early days and I am not counting any chickens just yet, just in case. But we are starting to think about when to tell parents and siblings, as I always imagined I would tell them v early on (as would want their support if God forbid anything went wrong). DH doesn't want to tell ANYONE until at least 12weeks, as he wants to be able to make a nice happy announcement and celebrate once we are further along, rather than tell a couple of people quietly and (I think in his eyes) "spoil" a big reveal moment later on. It's possibly relevant that our engagement announcement didn't go entirely according to plan so I think he wants to make up for it.
However, I think that if I were in my DM's shoes, particularly, I might feel quite hurt that my DD didn't feel she could tell me straight away (but if we tell DM, we have to tell DDad, etc etc).
So my question is, if you are a DM yourself, would you feel hurt that you only found out about your DD's pregnancy at 12 weeks? Or am I being oversensitive and overthinking this? I know it's ultimately mine & DH's decision, just want to minimise upset.
Any insight appreciated. Thanks in advance
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Would you be upset if your (adult) DD didn't tell you she was pg?
LemonShizzleCake · 18/03/2016 22:22
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