My feed
Premium

Please
or
to access all these features

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

MNHQ have commented on this thread

Conception

Ttc 2nd baby... So hard

6 replies

Hopefornumber2 · 14/08/2015 10:57

My dh and I baby number 2.
I am of course so grateful the joy that our dd (2yrs) has given us and am so thankful to have her.
I can't help however to feel hollow as I struggle to complete our family. Cycle 11 of trying and not prevented since dd was born.
My tests all came back fine. Dh to have his tests done.
This process is so heartbreaking every month another let down.
This is for all those ttc no#2 who secretly shed tears. Feel like a failure. That I cannot give my dd the sibling she longs for. Sad
Any advice? Anyone in same boat? My af due tomorrow. Bfn so far.

OP posts:
Report
BeccaMumsnet · 14/08/2015 12:41

Hi Hopefornumber2 - we're going to pop this over to our Conception topic for you.

Report
MummyBex1985 · 14/08/2015 13:10

Hi there

There are a few people in the same boat. I haven't been trying as long as you but just got AF on CD38(!) and also TTC #2.

It's easier to deal with when you know there are other people going through it too. Come and join some of the threads on here, we will cheer you up I promise Flowers

I will happily share my virtual wine and virtual chocolate with you Grin

Report
Hopefornumber2 · 14/08/2015 14:01

Thanks for you reply. Well AF has shown up a day early. ????
Onto cycle 11. Hubby so calm and collected about it all. It will happen he says. But dd was conceived on 6th month. So hard...

OP posts:
Report
Reebok · 14/08/2015 14:14

Just wanted to let you know that you're not alone. I know how you feel. DD is 2. I got pregnant again but miscarried 4 weeks ago. Feeling a bit lost but there are lots of threads on here with women who know exactly what you are going through. Come on over to the Ttc relaxed thread. It's full of wonderful women who keep me going!

Report
Hopefornumber2 · 14/08/2015 14:26

Thanks Reebok I'm new here how do I find that thread

OP posts:
Report
Reebok · 14/08/2015 20:14

Go to talk, conception and then there's a thread called Ttc a relaxed thread. Would have sent link but my silly phone won't let me do it.

Report
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.