Hi,
It's hard to know why I'm posting but I suppose I'm looking for positive stories or alternatively negative stories so I can be realistic instead of pointlessly optimistic.
We lost our first baby at 21 weeks 3 months ago after a diagnosis of Turners Syndrome. Our baby developed hydrops at approx 14 weeks.
We're going to TTC again this month and I'm conflicted in terms of what to expect.
We got pregnant very easily with our first baby (BFP on month 2), had an early scan(due to mix up dates with hospital) so thought all was well and then had the devastating news about a cystic hygroma at a scan at 13 & a half weeks. I was totally blindsided & the following 10 weeks were just a devastating rollercoaster.
After testing it seems the chromosomal abnormality was just shit luck and there's no reason not to try again. And after processing everything that happened we're now in that position.
Has anyone else been in this situation? How long did it take to conceive after such a loss? Did what to most people is only a 2WW actually become a 12WW until after a scan? Also, I find myself thinking does my body not recognise chromosomal abnormalities? In 95% of pregnancies with turners syndrome an early miscarriage is the outcome. My body didn't miscarry. And while I wouldn't change the past now that I've lived it I just couldn't survive going through the last half a year again!
If anyone has any experience of this I would be very grateful to hear your experiences. TIA.
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Bluebell29 · 03/07/2015 22:38
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