Hoping I'm pregnant

[Cnmorgan13]

I am finally ready to have a baby. Husband is not. We've been having unprotected sex around ish my fertile period (but have not been actively trying sometimes withdrawal/going to the loo after) for about 3 months. I know I won't be but is it wrong of me to hope that we are pregnant this month?

[Oysterbabe]

I don't think it's wrong. He knows you want a baby. He knows the possible results of unprotected sex.
Obviously it'd be better if he was fully on board. Why isn't he ready? Is there a particular reason?

[Cnmorgan13]

Just terrified to grow up I think lol! The responsibility, financial impact (I earn more) just the usual stuff. I've been on the fence for about a year or so but I've finally felt I'm ready. We are generally really good at communicating but the talk about ttc (of which we've had many) just seem to be, when x happens or next few months. Kind of like his learning to drive.......... It's always next month lol