Hi all, just wanted to know if anyone was in the same boat. I've always had quite a high sex drive lol, but my OH is quite the opposite, and states that 'he is normal and I am not'. We're both quite young so I think it's strange how he's even told me 'I prefer the sex we have when it's just 3 times a week and not every day'.
As you can imagine, this makes TTC quite tricky with my fertile windows, and I find my self 'savouring the passion' and doing a bit of a seductive Anne Boleyn, and only giving into his desire for me if it's near my fertile window when I'm smack bang ovulating. Of course, this is easier said than done and emotionally quite draining.
I really don't know what to do! This would be our first baby and whole heartedly, I will admit, I probably want this in a lot of ways much more than him, but that's because we as woman do all the planning and date calculating, which can be understandably frustrating.
What should I do? I can't get him to have sex every other day on the dot during my fertile window, as he just isn't in to it and I feel it's forced :/ He also doesn't manage to ejaculate if it's a sex session mainly provoked by me (hehe).
P.S he isn't under any stresses, he has been this way since he was 19! He rarely masturbates too, as he doesn't have the time and if he's feeling the mood we'll always have sex.
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My partner's low sex drive is becoming a real problem whilst TTC :(
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sophiedeana990 · 28/06/2015 20:37
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