Hi I was just wondering what all your opinions on the best time to have a baby is and when is it too soon?
My situation - I'm 20 at the moment, finishing off a college course and working part time on a postnatal ward as a care assistant. I've been with my fiance 3 years. He's currently finishing off his carpentry apprenticeship, working full time and will soon be on a good wage by end of the year. We're both living with my parents atm, but we're on the waiting list for a council flat, (he's been in foster care, so entitled to one till he's 21), he's 20 at the moment, which we're getting in next few months.
I was planning on going to university to study Midwifery, but after all my uni choices but one have declined me and the last one, I haven't heard anything from yet and is notoriously hard to get into, I've started exploring other options. Basically I'm not interested in re-applying if I don't get in this year as I'm reluctant to start a 3 year degree, when I haven't had one month break out of full time education since I left school and I really just want to get on with my life now ie. having kids. We're planning to get married either autumn this year or spring next and I'm wanting to ttc baby #1 as soon as we're married and settled in the flat. Making us 22 by the time the baby comes, married, been together for 5 years, earning a good income. Is this too soon to have a baby? I feel like a lot of people would look down on me for not going to university and having a family young, but it's all I can think about it. It's all I've ever wanted, so much more than a career and I finally feel in a place (next year) where I start a family. Thoughts please??
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Bebebuttons94 · 20/01/2015 21:59
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