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AF due yesterday, BFN. Any stories of hope?!

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funnylittlekaty Tue 28-Oct-14 17:43:22

Just poas, the biggest fattest clearest negative you ever saw. Af was due yesterday and I do have achy tummy but I had cramps when v early with ds. Anyone have a bfn then a bfp later on? Or should I call it a day with the hoping and have a sorrow drowning wine?

northernmummeh Tue 28-Oct-14 17:45:25

Loads of hope. Even with a first response still got bfn 3 days after AF was due. Finally got a bfp a week after AF was due

Hyland Tue 28-Oct-14 18:02:18

Stay away from the wine lol
I've been trying for almost 3 years and was due on today and also a big fat negative sad

Not only do on wine just a glass of wine but I have a family trip to Alton towers Thursday and no closer to knowing if I should miss out on the rides, which I would happily do for the right result but don't want to holdback only to then come on :{

funnylittlekaty Tue 28-Oct-14 18:10:32

Thank you northern. Fingers crossed. I had a glass of wine last night in a bloody minded I'm bound to be if I've been daft enough to have a drink tempting fate sort of way, but am so hoping it was an early false negative. Don't want to build up my hopes though when I've had a very clear no. Have you got any other signs?

funnylittlekaty Tue 28-Oct-14 18:11:23

Sorry. Last question was for hyland. Mumsnet fail right there

AlpacaYourThings Tue 28-Oct-14 18:14:02

I tested negative for 9 days after AF was due. Finally got a positive on day 10. Turns out I had ovulated late.

Fingers crossed for you, OP.

Hyland Tue 28-Oct-14 18:15:00

Embarrassingly gas smelly, very attractive not the kinda problem I ordinarily suffer from and also white creamy discharge

Hyland Tue 28-Oct-14 18:19:46

I am inpatient at the best if times ... 9 days or so of negative would be torture ... As always I just want a simple yay I'm pregnant AT LONG LAST or no new cycle on it's way and then I'll put a positive spin on it by enjoying some roller coaster rides Thursday

It feels cruel that I've waited 3 years to fall so to be in limbo and not know either way after waiting the silly two weeks has just added to my annoyance

funnylittlekaty Tue 28-Oct-14 18:20:04

Thanks Alpaca. Here's hoping. I'm varyingly (is that a word?!) feeling sick, windy (par for the course with me!) and crampy. And apparently prone to making up words. My boobs feel fine though, damn them. Am going to try again with fmu on Thursday if no af by then. Sigh.

HopefulSmile14 Wed 29-Oct-14 15:10:49

I've got bfn 3 of them but I'm not due for AF till Friday sad all prego signs are messing with my head

funnylittlekaty Wed 29-Oct-14 21:32:58

Argh me too! I poas again tonight. Bfn but still no sign of AF. Going to wait til Friday now....

HopefulSmile14 Wed 29-Oct-14 22:06:38

I tested tonight too and still bfn sad times dragging I just wanna know if AF is coming or not

AlpacaYourThings Wed 29-Oct-14 22:11:05

Your symptoms sound similar to mine before I got my BFP.

yellowsnownoteatwillyou Wed 29-Oct-14 22:21:55

AF was 3 weeks late am always on time but bfn all thru the 3 weeks.
14 month old is sound asleep just now.

funnylittlekaty Wed 29-Oct-14 22:55:49

Thanks everyone. Here's hoping for a quiet day tomorrow on the af front. Going to try and not think about it's sending me a bit nuts!

HopefulSmile14 Thu 30-Oct-14 05:48:54

Me too hopefully when the other half comes back off his stag do Sunday I have some good news for him fingers crossed girls I want that bfp

funnylittlekaty Fri 31-Oct-14 07:29:31

5 days late now...fmu...another bfn. Facing facts now but I wish AF would hurry cycles shot to pieces now! X

funnylittlekaty Fri 31-Oct-14 07:35:52

Haha just arrived! Careful what you wish for. That's me out. Gutted. Massive good luck to everyone else. Here's to next month.

HopefulSmile14 Fri 31-Oct-14 09:59:45

AF hasn't came but bfn

AlpacaYourThings Fri 31-Oct-14 21:47:40

Sorry to hear that funnylittlekaty sad I hope next month is the lucky month for you.


HopefulSmile14 Fri 31-Oct-14 23:04:25

AF arrived I'm out

funnylittlekaty Sat 01-Nov-14 09:47:28

Oh no hopeful! So Sorry. Here's to a bfp for us all by Christmas. Have no idea when I'm ovulating now though! I'm going to try for 3 times a week through the month and hope for the best. It's stressful isn't it?!

wildfire613 Sat 01-Nov-14 13:54:29

Slightly disappointed myself. Last time I got a bfp (even though I mc'd 3 days later) with fr on the day after my period was due. DH and I went on honeymoon this month and we were both hoping for a bfp. AF due today. Poas last night and bfn. Figured it was not morning pee so might be wrong. Poas this morning, bfn. Now I'm torn between having a glass of wine tonight or waiting another week in case AF is late or test is wrong. I really thought we could be bfp. Same symptoms as my first bfp. Tender boobs, itchy/painful nipples, constipation (never been in my life).. :-(

Gillian1980 Sat 01-Nov-14 14:14:53

Aw, wildfire it's so disappointing getting a bfn isn't it. It's really early days yet so don't give up hope for a bfp!

And if you are pregnant one glass of wine won't hurt smile and you could always make it a spritzer to make it less alcohol.

wildfire613 Sat 01-Nov-14 14:20:00

Yeah it. Is. Been scanning the boards and still really confused. One girl said she had discharge at a nipple yesterday in her very early pregnancy. That happened to me last night. Never in my life have I had any discharge since this would be us still ttc#1 after Mc. And albeit, I said wine but I prefer vodka. Nothing like a good bloody Mary lol

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