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BFN and no AF

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Treaclepie19 Mon 17-Feb-14 12:59:53

I know there's a thread already but it seems to be empty now.
Just wondered if anyone was in the same boat?
I'm on cd31 today, bfn and no af. 21dpo.

This is my longest cycle in the past 2 years (cant say before that as wasnt tracking). Last month was only 24 days and this month I ovulated on cd10 so expected another 24 day cycle - af on tues.
Anyone relate?

whenskiesareblue Mon 17-Feb-14 18:35:40

Yes! Me! I am on CD 31 and usually have a 26 day cycle (it varies each way by a day or two). Last month I had a 23 day cycle, which is quite short for me, but it was my first cycle after a chemical preg so thought that was why.
I had a BFN yesterday with FMU and now don't know what to do! Never had a cycle longer than 28 days.
I'm trying not to hold out any hope for a positive as it seems unlikely, but the alternative is AWOL period which worries me...
Have you had any symptoms? I had (tmi) quite a bit of cm and a metallic taste for one day, but that might have been because I was coldly.
I'm so distracted by this - it's doing my head in!
What's your next move?? Fx for you xx

Treaclepie19 Mon 17-Feb-14 18:47:47

We are pretty much the same then!
Ive had cm and cramps. Very tired but thats about it.

Im not sure what to do sad might just go to the doctor to ask for advice. How about you?

whenskiesareblue Mon 17-Feb-14 18:53:28

I think I might test again later this week, but not sure when. The bfn was crushing.. A lesson in counting my chickens I guess! So I am resisting the test in the cupboard.
If still no AF and BFN I'll prob book dr appointment for beginning of next week. I need an answer!
Do you want to wait together?! (Can't believe how similar are dates etc are!)

Treaclepie19 Mon 17-Feb-14 18:56:21

Definitely wait together smile I think I'm going to go to the doctors this week cus im not at work.

I really just want af to come now so i know!

whenskiesareblue Mon 17-Feb-14 19:52:56

Ah it's nice not to be waiting alone! DH is understanding (and obv keen for a BFP too) but he's that bit more detached. Which us understandable.
Do you teach by any chance?? Wondered as it's half term and you have the week off..
So tempted to test tomorrow but I think I will wait till Wed or Thurs. If it's a negative them I know I'm definitely out. The strange thing is I don't feel pregnant iykwim but I don't feel like AF is on way. Aaa argh!

Treaclepie19 Mon 17-Feb-14 19:59:45

Yeah... Me and DH have been arguing tonight cus im so stressed.
Ive been googling and worrying its ectopic and thats the reason.
Yeah im a teacher smile

I will test tomorrow, I cant deal with not haha.

Just looking at this, giving me hope:

whenskiesareblue Mon 17-Feb-14 20:02:34

Oo that link is very interesting! Gives me false hope...
I have a first response in the cupboard...

Treaclepie19 Mon 17-Feb-14 20:10:30

POAS! smile
I used a first response this morning so must not be pregnant. Ugh.

whenskiesareblue Mon 17-Feb-14 22:25:52

I will POAS tomorrow or Wed because if it negative then I can get to doctor before weekend. They will prob g

whenskiesareblue Mon 17-Feb-14 22:28:11

Stupid phone! They will probably fob me off but anyway.

Let me know what happens with your test tomorrow!

Treaclepie19 Mon 17-Feb-14 22:32:45

Will do!
Im gonna go to the doctors tomorrow cus im back at work next week. I know they will fob me off but really need some perspective as I've nearly convinced myself im pregnant haha.

Treaclepie19 Tue 18-Feb-14 06:55:02

BFN again sad

I must just be fooling myself thinking I'm pregnant.

toots123 Tue 18-Feb-14 07:00:30

Hi girls. Thought I would join you.
im now 16 dpo and bfn this morning again!

Treacle are you going to the docs today? If nothing by next week I will be going!

Treaclepie19 Tue 18-Feb-14 07:07:03

Hi toots smile

Yeah I'm going to the docs today. Feel like I will be wasting their time though.
I wouldn't have thought I could ov late as I got positive opk so pretty sure it was then.

whenskiesareblue Tue 18-Feb-14 07:09:10

Treacle that's so frustrating... Are you going to book doctor appt? This situation really does suck. brew for you

Hi toots how long have you been ttc for?

I'm trying to hold off testing for a couple of days. It's rubbish though, can't concentrate on anything and feel I am wishing the days away. Pretty sure it will be BFN sad

Treaclepie19 Tue 18-Feb-14 07:36:34

Thanks smile
Yeah just waiting fo the doctors to open so I can go.
Another faint line out of the time limit of cheap test. Grrr.

toots123 Tue 18-Feb-14 08:37:09

Let us know how it goes treacle! Im sure we were both in limbo last month too!!
hi when this is only our second month (third of you count from pill withdrawal bleed)
I know its early days but we really want this to happen! X

Treaclepie19 Tue 18-Feb-14 08:39:30

Last month my af was early sad

Rang doctors and they have no appointments. Got one for thursday, not with the doctor i wanted but still. Hopefully ill have found out either way by then.

Treaclepie19 Tue 18-Feb-14 12:27:41

I said I wouldn't do this but it's driving me crazy looking at it...
The test I took this morning, after half an hour there was a faint pink line. I have had quite a few faint lines that I've put down to evap but normally hours later.

I know it probably is an evap but still hoping it is my answer really... here it is:

toots123 Tue 18-Feb-14 12:34:16

Looks line a line but cant see it clearly on my phone! Keep testing each morning and see what happens.

Im feeling the same as you. Might do a frer tomorrow morning. But I might try and wait till friday which would be 19dpo

Treaclepie19 Tue 18-Feb-14 12:40:02

I will do, guessing it will be another bfn and I'll feel even worse! :P

Fingers crossed for you! smile

whenskiesareblue Tue 18-Feb-14 16:37:42

I can see a line. I don't really understand about evaps though? As toots said, I would try again in morning.

I'm going to test tomorrow I think. I think it will be BFN but then I can at least think about going to dr. Sigh...

toots123 Tue 18-Feb-14 16:47:47

Ive had a word with myself and decided not to test ahain until next week at the earliest. Going to ask dh to hide all tests from me. He thinks we should test on friday so might keep a frer for then
the lengths I go to not test ahaha

Treaclepie19 Tue 18-Feb-14 16:57:42

Aww skies, dont lose hope!

toots thats so what I need to do haha!

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