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Going to scream!!

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Mrsmorrison13 · 13/01/2014 12:31

If one more family member tells me to "calm down it will happen if you stop trying" then I will scream. Lol I have no option but to try ! It's been 6 long months now and we are desperate x

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libra35 · 13/01/2014 13:23

I have been through this and it's bloody irritating especially as it hasn't ever happened. After more than 4 years of trying, that comment has now stopped and instead I get "why don't you adopt". Argh!

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FeckinNC · 13/01/2014 13:25

Yes to this. Also "just get really pissed it worked for me". Argggg.

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ThoraNomiki · 13/01/2014 18:44

Yup hate it. It feels like they're saying "you're doing something wrong. That's why you're not getting pregnant"

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Mrsmorrison13 · 14/01/2014 00:33

Ahh at least I'm not alone :-) x

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dildoos · 18/01/2014 20:24

Super familiar !!! Or why did you test? After 4 early mc, onmy day we waited 2 clear months! Parents got angry as I went to epau with mc at 7 weeks cos in their day they wouldn't have tested by then!
Since investigations I get be grateful for your health!
Don't worry dd5 has been an only child this long she won't mind!
Hell I've had all !
It's my laid back personality stops me saying anything at all or punching them straight on the nose!!! Xx

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MissHobart · 18/01/2014 21:21

Yup, you're too stressed/depressed/upset to get pregnant turned into no wonder you mc'd, you were too stressed and not providing a suitable environment Angry

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Thatssofunny · 19/01/2014 08:45

When AF arrived around Christmas and I was having a teary moment (my due date was supposed to be in March, so I should have been quite huge by then...but mc got in the way), my mum just wouldn't let it go. "You are getting all depressed." (Ahem, no, I'm not...) And when I told her to just leave me alone for a few minutes and not constantly make comments when she doesn't have a clue about these things, I got: "Well, if you are getting angry, you'll never get a baby." Oh, just F off, will you? Both my sister and I were accidents. I have one wobbly moment in months....we've been ttc for ages.

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dildoos · 19/01/2014 09:47

Miss and that's it's almost like reading about my life , sorry you get this poop too xx

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