Hi
I'm preparing for my lap n dye in 3 weeks' time after a hectic and stressful year of moving house, plus getting promoted and doing a professional course on top of working.
The course has been exceptionally tough and I'm due to complete by the end of September before my op. lots of my colleagues have cracked under the strain!
On top of this I have stage 4 endo which causes back pain and IBS, plus chronic fatigue. I'm beginning to realise that I'm really feeling the pressure and am struggling to be in work all the time - I'm winding my caseload down to prep for my op. I think I just feel exhausted plus the lap and dye is making me think about fertility afterwards - my DH and I have neglected this side of things this year due to the course taking all my time and energy!
Is it stupid to even consider thinking about telling my employer about the fact that the op is not just about my endo and IBS (which it partly is)but also about fertility? I feel like I need shorter hours or something, less stress, not sure what.
I tend to put myself under a lot of pressure and just keep going but beginning to realise that perhaps I can't. I can't take holiday but can I ask to do shorter hours right now?
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Infertility, op, stress - what do you tell your employer?
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TigerseyeMum · 03/09/2013 10:45
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