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Tea1Sugar · 07/07/2013 18:36

Anyone care to join me for this interminable length of waiting time?! I'm only 1 dpo! Brew

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Writerwannabe83 · 07/07/2013 19:52

I think I have recently ovulated (not 100% sure about how EWCM) works though if I'm honest. Smile

Either way, my AF is due in 14 days so I guess I can join you Smile

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Tea1Sugar · 07/07/2013 20:04

I'm pretty in the dark too tbh it's my first cycle off the pill but had a positive opk on friday cd12 so I presume I ovulated yesterday!

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Writerwannabe83 · 07/07/2013 20:09

It is my first time TTC since removal of my Mirena coil Grin

I have a 'pretty much in the dark' buddy now. Yay Grin

I haven't gone down the OPK route.....I'm scared I will get addicted [ smile]

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Bambi27 · 07/07/2013 20:10

Had my fixed smiley today so soon to ovulate and be on the tww...great!!

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Tea1Sugar · 07/07/2013 20:13

Yay! Bambi - hope its not crazy sweaty/hot as it is here when you're trying to dtd!!

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Writerwannabe83 · 07/07/2013 20:13

So do you start DTD at this point or do you have to wait until ovulation actually occurs??

How long can sperm actually survive for up there for anyway???

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Tea1Sugar · 07/07/2013 20:15

Well my little knowledge of this ttc lark (dd was a pill baby!) is sperm can survive around 72 hours before ovulation so best to dtd every other day before ovulation so they are "waiting" as the egg only lasts 12-24 hours Smile

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charleylarlie · 07/07/2013 20:18

Mee too! I got a fixed smiley on Tuesday and ewcm on the same day. From entering it all onto ovufriend (plus bbt) it said that I ovulated on Tuesday, but I reckon it was prob a day or so later so am prob about 4 or 5 dpo. Not sure exactly when AF due - will have to check. I am 37 and this is our 4th month ttc DC2. Smile

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charleylarlie · 07/07/2013 20:23

Yes, dtd 1 to 3 days before ov will give you the best chance, Writer. DP and I dtd every other day until fixed smiley and then try 2 or 3 days in a row.

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Writerwannabe83 · 07/07/2013 20:23

Welcome Charley and Bambi,

Best of luck to you!! It would be great if we all got BFPs!!!

How long after EWCM does ovulation usually occur??

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Writerwannabe83 · 07/07/2013 20:25

Thanks charley - I'm starting to worry that DH is starting to feel 'used' haha Grin

Planning on DTD is this weather is daunting..... Smile

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Tea1Sugar · 07/07/2013 20:35

We've used pre-seed for the first time the past few times of dtd - it's err slippery! I think Af is due 19/ 20/21 but who knows Blush

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Writerwannabe83 · 07/07/2013 20:36

Pre-Seed???

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Bambi27 · 07/07/2013 20:44

No idea sorry!! I'm so out if tune with my body it's unreal!!! Xx

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Tea1Sugar · 07/07/2013 21:28

A lube specifically for conception. All others are damaging to sperm but this is actually designed to help the swimmers along! It mimics ewcm Smile

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charleylarlie · 08/07/2013 11:37

I think that ewcm occurs just before or on the day of ov, but not entirely certain so don't take my word for it.

I've never heard of pre-seed. Can you buy it in Boots or the supermarkets?

Going to be a long couple of weeks as I'm only 4 or 5 dpo and already beginning to imagine symptoms (itchy and tingly boobs). Must be all in my head as it's far too early for me to have proper symptoms - implantation wouldn't even have occurred by now! Confused

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TeaAndANatter · 08/07/2013 11:43

Pulling up a retro-faded stripe deckchair for the long fortnight ahead (well, one week now for me). Laying out a good book, some factor 50 and a long cold lemonade.

And wondering where I'd buy this pre-seed?

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Tea1Sugar · 08/07/2013 17:11

It's an American product but I bought mine on amazon as recommended by others mumsnetters. Can be used via applicator or straight on you/him. Only frigging 2dpo Hmm

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Tea1Sugar · 08/07/2013 17:15

Now for a tmi cm mucus question Grin Thursday and Friday seriously watery cm coupled with a positive opk, dtd both days, Saturday negative opk and minimal cm, think I ovulated according to various apps, yesterday and today cm is err creamy. I thought dpo were suppose to be dry? Hmm

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TeaAndANatter · 08/07/2013 19:03

I think it works its way up to ewcm, then goes back down through the stages (but a wee bit faster). At least mine does, and its always been pretty consistent.

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Tea1Sugar · 09/07/2013 17:30

Think I'm out for the month Hmm 3dpo and got loads of white creamy cm. Af due 20th but already very doubtful Hmm

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Bambi27 · 09/07/2013 17:32

Tea1sugar why would that mean you're out?? I know nothing about cm??!! Xx

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Tea1Sugar · 09/07/2013 17:55

Just from stuff I've read tbh

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Bambi27 · 09/07/2013 18:38

Oh right well hope you're wrong and you get your bfp this month!!

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charleylarlie · 09/07/2013 18:52

Tea1Sugar - you probably wouldn't get any symptoms until implantation has occurred, which is about 6 - 12 dpo and even then you might not know for sure until you do a test. Some women get changes in their cm as a very early symptom of pg but many don't notice any change at all. I'm not v in touch with my body so have no clue really about my own cm - have only just discovered ewcm last month. But don't rule yourself out just yet! Smile

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