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Ttc#2 secondary infertility?

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dildoos Sat 15-Jun-13 07:16:29

Please join me for fertility idea swaps, cake eating, woe is me chats hmmand general company and sanity saving x

dildoos Tue 18-Jun-13 08:59:57

Totes that's what I thought too, I know you can get the surge and not release egg every month am assuming this would be then what they find with bloods? Someone also adv I should have bloods taken a various points of cycle for more accuracy but didn't really understand and worried that sometimes too much knowledge would be as for megrinxx

dildoos Tue 18-Jun-13 09:47:18

Feeling fed up today another bfp from another friend very close and she will be a wonderful mum and thinking why not me hmm is this fate? X

Hyland Tue 18-Jun-13 11:10:56

Yea I'm pretty sure I read that a smiley face doesn't mean u definitely ovulating .... Just something about how that's when u normally would but it can still not be released after all.... All very confusing... At least a smiley face is half way there, but not sure how we can be certain it's actually happening

Hyland Tue 18-Jun-13 11:15:55

I now know of three other friends trying to conceive and know its only a matter of time before they announce their good news, whilst I smile and say how lovely and then sink into my void ... Of GREAT just me again then... I even know one friend who is somewhat larger than most who also been trying for a longtime and would joke that perhaps she would adopt a monkey lol. I was thrilled for her when she finally fell and sue to pop in the next two weeks. Just don't want my journey to be a long one or a pointless one

Hyland Tue 18-Jun-13 11:20:50

I have a question my window of dtd is withing the next 7 days I think but I'm due to take a course of antibiotics, will this be safe when ttc or would it harm the baby if I was lucky enough to concieve

Totesamazeballs Tue 18-Jun-13 12:45:36

Oh, I didn't realise that about the LH surge and not OV. Blood tests are pretty accurate, or, for the most accurate test, do follicle tracking where they scan you at various points in your cycle and see what is going on.

I am afraid I don't know about the antibiotics, maybe ask the GP?

Sorry Dil and Hyland. Both of your feelings chime, particularly, the 'just me again' as it starts to feel like that. Sometimes I think I really have to fight for what I want and be patient which I am not good at being, but when I get them they are worth the wait.

Empathy hugs to you both smile

dildoos Tue 18-Jun-13 13:22:15

Sorry hyland your feeling these things today too hmm totes thanks for the hugs in turn they are returned! Xx

argylesocks Tue 18-Jun-13 14:21:42

Thanks for the replies, If there's still no luck this month I'll see if I can get some bloods done though they'll probably say its too early!

Hyland Tue 18-Jun-13 16:08:20

Dildoos ur very kind, wishing u and all of u on here a quick fall in ttc and sending u all positive vibes, it's just hard when u realise another month I've failed. And then all the hype in the days leading to ovulating and then the 2 week wait that u prey this time will be eventful lol

I tried to use my own advise of being positive and purchased two books about pregnancy for men (expectant dads survival guide - everything u need to know...& From birth to 3 years old) ...... I thought if I concentrate on planning how I would tell my partner the good news it will give me something to look forward to. Silly but I read once something about time travel and if I concentrate on the end result then everything in the middle will be very quick... Worth a try !

dildoos Tue 18-Jun-13 19:55:36

Thank you hyland and I wish for you the same smile
That sounds like a good plan! I have not been to positive recently so maybe pinch your idea and give it a whirl but may try reflexology again? How's you feeling at the mo?
How is everyone else doing?

Hyland Sun 23-Jun-13 18:50:16

Had some wisdom teeth taken out, so feel like that has got in the way of dtd so feeling a bit fed up

dildoos Sun 23-Jun-13 19:32:05

I am a dental nurse hyland grin so right place to feel you can chat about either end wink
I do vaguely remember when i fell with dd I was blush as thought only did once and lord only bows when in cycle! Maybe the times you have managed Dtd will have been successful!
The witch got me good and proper today angrysad
However thinking of doing ov tests this month, what's your experience with these? X

Hyland Sun 23-Jun-13 21:23:10

Your a dental nurse lol i'm a big scaredy cat lol ..I had to go to hospital for the surgery under anaesthetic, thought I wouldn't need the following day off work ... Turnt I needed the whole week. I'm pretty sure we haven't done it during those ideal days so feeling glum (who would want to do it with someone who seems ill - from pain and can't talk properly and mouth still swollen and still taking a lot of pain killers lol)

Ov test are expensive .... Perhaps look on eBay. My first couple of times I wasn't even getting a smiley face (this was using a pack of 7) then I bough a bigger pack and tested for longer than they said which finally got my first smiley face and its true what they say ( it's almost as heartbreaking not getting that smiley face than not getting the positive on preg test) I do think it will give I an idea on when u ovulate and perhaps repeat the following month in case ur one of those who don't ovulate the same time every month.

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