So basically i am 21 years old, and have been with my fiancee for 6 years. We love each other dearly and are in a stable relationship (we have never split up or had one of those end of the world rows.. which seems to be impressive these days..) We have no doubts about the loving environment we can offer a child. We have a god daughter who is a toddler that we babysit and see nearly every day, so we have a vague idea of what parenthood really entails (although he is yet to change a nappy, thats my job!). Essentially, in my mind and soul i am ready.. i just need some help to figure out the body part...
part 1 - im slightly overweight. There is so much contravercial stuff online about being pregnant and overweight, putting strain on yourself and the baby. i weigh 15 stone and am 5 foot 2. How much will this really effect the preganancy and the risks involved? i walk around in town and see someone who weighs 20+ stone with a child in a pram and think... how can it make that much difference to me when they risked it? I just dont know what to think!
part 2 - Cerazette. I have read the horror story threads online, and i am not entirely sure that the problems are coming off cerazette. when i have missed a pill before, i have noticed straight away because i start to get the symptoms of AF within 24 hours... yet on cerazette i have no AF at all. I have been on the pill for about a year now, maybe a year and a half. I wanted to conceive after my holiday this year, as i cannot deal with periods on my hols (as im going somewhere less than sanitary and periods make me vomit and feel drunk. Not to mention the pain, and the amount of bleeding). My holiday will be in june and i wanted to concieve in june or july (hopefully, though even the best laid plans..) Would your advice be to try and stop it beforehand and attempt to time my period so that it wont interfere with my holiday (hopefully the last one as a free adult for the net 18 years) or try and concieve straight away after stopping cerazette after my holiday? i guess i have the option of trying to concieve beforehand, as i dont drink or smoke or anything even on holiday, but i would like to have the option there as one last blowout before i sign the rest of my life away!
Part 3 - giving birth - the only thing that i truly feel i will never be prepared for. Its the only thing thats ever really held me back! You hear horror stories about 48 hours labours (or more) and things like that, will part 1 effect this? good stories please, i need to be less scared!! lol.
thanks in advance for any help xx
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