God i can't believe i am asking this again, but i'm going to any way!!
A while back i was asking about which position is best for baby making and i really should have asked this question at the same time, but i guess my limit is one embarrassing question at a time
Any way to the question ...... After dtd i am pretty quick at getting up and sorting my self out and so i almost immediately wipe away the excess fluid now that we are ttc with more omph i've been lifting my bum a bit and usually after 10 - 15 mins going to sort myself out and i am still wiping away a lot of fluid. Now i figure i want to keep the fluid in me as much as possible right?? Should i really be wiping away fluid or should i be lying down longer, or does it not matter??
I'm on cycle 14 of ttc. I asked at a recent fertility appointment and the doctor said putting a pillow under you does nothing , as the good swimmers go in the right direction! she also said most of what 'leaks' out is seminal fluid, again the good swimmers will hav got to where they need to be.
that said, I still put a pillow under me and my legs up for at least half an hour and try not to get up at all until morning!!