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Hi I'm new, been ttc for a yr

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Nicelife24 Mon 25-Mar-13 17:27:30

HI I'm new here, been trying to find a site to help me.

I have 2 children, lost a baby at 21 weeks 18mths ago and have been ttc for yr but no luck. I don't know why, no reason, never had a problem before!!

I do have pcos, but it hasn't been a problem before. My cycles are quite long and varies, it was 36 days but the last 2 times its been 41 days. Not sure if that has something to do with it. I had a smear and swabs taken, but all came back clear.

I have been reading up on BV and I seriously think that is why I lost my baby as I had all the symptoms. But it was never diagnosed.

I guess I need some friends to help me, know if anything I can do, knows how it feels as I'm sick of people saying just relax and forget about it and it will happen, easier said than done. Also it would be nice to share this journey with others to keep each other sane.

I am taking pregnacare, fish oils and ginger, is there anthing else I can take? Is there anything I can ask my dr for?

I think we aren't dtd often enough, but it seems to be coming between us a bit oddly, you would think my hubby would be delighted to have regular sex, but instead he's moaning I'm using him for a baby, but he knows we are ttc!!!!!!

Sorry for such a long post I was just trying to get everything in there.

Hello to everyone, it seems a big site hopefully I will find my way around soon!

PistachioTruffle Mon 25-Mar-13 17:32:54

Hi Nicelife, I'm so sorry about your little one flowers

Welcome to mumsnet, I'm quite new too and everyone on conception seems to be very friendly and welcoming smile

I hope someone comes along soon with some helpful advice!

Nicelife24 Mon 25-Mar-13 17:43:46

Thank you. Hopefully we will all get our babies one day soon

WingDefence Mon 25-Mar-13 18:01:06

Welcome to MN nicelife!

Have a surf through the Conception groups on here. E.g. I joined the Just Shagging group where we just shagged our way to getting BFPs (Big Fat Positives!) and didn't use ovulation testing kits or chart temperatures etc. it worked quite well for me (and was less stressful) - in fact I'm 38weeks pg now and there are quite a few of us for whom this method worked!

But if you want more specific support, then there will be other groups of ladies who are using those extra bits to help them pinpoint OV dates etc - there may even be a group for ladies with PCOS. (And if not, then start one up!)

Just have a search or a trawl through the titles in the Conception topic Nd don't forget to look past the first page if you don't find exactly what you want at first, or use the search function on the site.

The very best of luck grin

Nicelife24 Mon 25-Mar-13 20:52:57

Thank you I will have a route around. Just shagging sounds a fun group lol.

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