Ttc and retarded ejaculation

[Couldonlyhappentome]

Has anyone got any advice about this please? It wasn't a problem before we started ttc but, although he hasn't said as much, I can tell its starting to get to dp which in turn I think is making the matter worse

[Maybeamug]

I'm with you. We struggle with this as well, and it's worse around the crucial time. I'm sick of smiling through gritted teeth at the Drs when they say "just do it 2 or 3 times a week".

To give you hope we conceived dd on one shag, and my 2nd pg too. Since then it's gone to pot as the stakes are rising. If I tell OH it's the crucial time then he can't manage it. If I don't tell him then delayed ejaculation strikes.

I'm thinking about asking the Dr about little blue pills...

But I'm with you on the frustration it causes.

[Jibberoo]

Not sure if I understand the issue but if I do then we are having problems too. No solutions yet but would be interested in what others have to say.

[Couldonlyhappentome]

Well the issue isn't with getting an erection, he gets one and then that's it he can last for hours.

I should sell him to the porn industry...

[gilly86]

Do you use a lubricant? Seems to "hurry up" my DH a bit ..

[Couldonlyhappentome]

No. Tmi but ahem no need iykwim

[Maybeamug]

Couldonly yep, that's what we have too. I was wondering if the pills would help 'tip him over the edge' if you'll excuse the phrase.

I've told him I WILL mention it next time I see my gynae as I'm sick of shouldering the whole burden of failure to conceive.