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9 days late for AF but 2 x BFN. Anyone else been through this?

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bluefreckles Mon 07-Jan-13 15:13:04

I am now 9 days late but have no BFP sad
I did a pg test early morning on 3rd Jan = BFN. I then did a second pg rest after work on 4th = BFN. Both tests were 'first response - 6 days earlier'.
I'm now very confused and worried. Really thought I was pg but now not so sure.
I have no AF symptoms either. Very tired and struggling to concentrate, bloated stomach, occasional cramping and have been peeing quite a bit. Have felt a teensy bit queasy occasionally but why the BFN?
Has anyone been through this and got a BFP eventually?

PurplePoppySeed Wed 16-Jan-13 17:10:37

Likewise, good luck all xx

Supa72 Tue 14-May-13 13:58:43

To Mrsstewpot, did you have a light period or IB, prior to being 17 days late???

This waiting for AF is sooo frustrating! All I get is BFNs, and convincing myself not preggers as back ache, dizziness and cramps have gone. Just random tight, sore and itchy nipples.

Now 15 days late! Any advice would be appreciated.


mazzie40 Tue 14-May-13 23:04:37

Hi supa. I'm 12 day's late. Haven't tested since 2 days late. I'm waiting awhile, lol don't know when tho? smile. Let me know how you get on. When did you last test?.

mazzie40 Tue 14-May-13 23:05:39

Hi supa. I'm 12 day's late. Haven't tested since 2 days late. I'm waiting awhile, lol don't know when tho? smile. Let me know how you get on. When did you last test?.

Iona1651 Thu 16-May-13 11:20:59

Hi everyone, can I climb into this boat too please?

I'm now 18 days late. Never been this late ever. Did a test this morning but still a BPN. Had PMS symptoms on Monday 13 May but nothing so far. Now got a dull ache in the lower part of my stomach. What's going on?

Malteaser1982 Thu 16-May-13 14:24:59

Same here confused

I was on the pill - stopped in Sep 2012 to ttc #2. The first 3 cycles were longer than my regular 28 day cycles (35, 32, 30 days). I then settled into my 28 day textbook cycles for the next 3 cycles (14 day luteal phase). The cycle before this was slightly longer - 30 days - however I had started spotting on cd28. This cycle is bonkers - I'm currently on cd33 with no hint of af!

Work was manic the past 2 months, so stress might be a factor. It's so bad, we only managed to dtd last Sat for this cycle - so can't even be pregnant (BFN yesterday).

FFS I just want AF now! Hoping to try the SMEP next cycle and bought some more OPKs and a basal body thermometer!

Iona1651 Fri 17-May-13 12:50:04

Hi Malteaser
Any news on your AF?

I'm, according to the internet, now due my next AF! My cycle average is 24 days, shortest being 22 days and longest being 26 days. I have had constant PMS since Monday but still no AF! I don't like taking tablets, especially if I am pregnant so I continue to feel rubbish all this week.

Sorry for being stupid, but what is and how do I work out my 'luteal phase?' Also, what is IPKs and SMEP? Does anyone think my cycle is too short to conceive?

The waiting for either AF or BFP is the worst part. If it is AF, then I just wish it'd turn up and get it over with....confused

Beckijx3 Sat 23-Apr-16 12:55:37

Hi! Sorry to jump on this thread but I'm
In a similar situation. AF is 10 days late, I have taken a clear blue this morning and BFN...I am now seriously worried there is something else going on as we have been TTC for a few months with no luck .. I swear our bodies like to play tricks on us just to be cruel! I don't really want to go to the dr as I always struggle to get an appt and feel like I would be wasting their time at the moment, just wondering if anyone has been in a similar position??
Thanks xxx

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