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Help me not to poas or think about it

(8 Posts)
QuietNinjaTardis Sat 27-Oct-12 08:42:37

Aargh such an idiot. Am on cycle 5 cd33, cycles have been all over the shop since coming off pill. 33 days, 38 days, 26 days, 29 days and 33 so far. Am trying so hard not to think about poas as did a few days ago and bfn. Basically this month we weren't trying properly (as in dtd eod) as we had a week of my mum staying so I said its never gonna happen this month so we'll just not try and have sex cos we wanna not cos we have to! So have dtd a grand total of twice. So it's very unlikely that I'm pregnant.
Am trying not to get my hopes up as think the 38 day month was cos I was stressing so trying not to do that.
Have absolutely no pregnancy symptoms. Had some period pains for about a day a week or so ago and I keep feeling like I'm gonna come on, I'm quite windy (tmi!) which I get before a period so I know I'm not pregnant but I'm still hoping so I need to get a grip so I'm not horribly disappointed when af turns up. So help me not to think I am. Thank you

QuietNinjaTardis Sat 27-Oct-12 08:43:23

Have to go but will be on and off during the day.

QuietNinjaTardis Sat 27-Oct-12 11:04:28

Ok well thanks. Have got my own grip as I just feel like I'm gonna come on so just waiting now.

CuriosityColaKilledTheCat Sat 27-Oct-12 11:11:22

Step away from the pee sticks. Go and treat yourself to some nice munchies and have a relaxing Saturday. A large glass of wine if your period does appear.

There was a really good thread on here a while back about the evils of pregnancy tests and testing early. Will try and find it for you later. Either way, they aren't worth the stress or the expense.

Are you part of a conception thread/group?

QuietNinjaTardis Sat 27-Oct-12 11:19:37

I know. Am gonna put wine in fridge for later. I was on the September and August thread but was just getting obsessive about symptom spotting so I backed away. I'm feeling grumpy so probably am due on but just wish af would hurry up if its coming so I can get on with next cycle. Moan moan whinge whine. Just feeling bit miserable today, thanks for replying x

CuriosityColaKilledTheCat Sat 27-Oct-12 11:29:17

You should check out the just shagging thread. Much more relaxed on there. smile.

Whether you are pregnant or not it sounds like you deserve a stress free weekend and lots of tlc. Be good to yourself. smile

QuietNinjaTardis Sat 27-Oct-12 11:38:13

Thanks curiosity. Will have a look at that thread. thanks

DingDongBelle Sun 04-Nov-12 09:03:06

Come over and join the shaggers. We'll keep you normal smile

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