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Knakard Tue 23-Oct-12 00:05:28

Month 6 of ttc, have a regular 27/28 cycle both with coil and since it has been removed. On day 28 and no af and no signs what so ever no cramp pmt etc! However poas this morning and again in desperation about and hour ago and both bfn!
Both previous pregs (one mc) conceived whilst by surprise whilst still on contraception so I thought actually trying would mean it was a piece of cake (sad)
Please help me stay sane whilst I wait for af and not spend £££ on bloody tests ( no more in the house).

jennimoo Sat 15-Dec-12 09:11:28

Trying not to think about it! Will be 13dpo on Friday and plan to use a clear blue digital (have a 2 pack as they were on offer...) so reckon it'll be pretty accurate.
If its a BFN at least I can enjoy the christmas booze!

Hope you're feeling well.

Clca Sat 15-Dec-12 09:23:23

Don't be too disheartened if it's a bfn to start off with. I used cb digital the day before AF was due and got a bfn then retested 4 days later and it was a bfp 2-3 weeks!!
Let me know how you get on, hopefully you'll get the best Christmas present!
I'm feeling ok, still doesn't feel real. It's my first so I'm a bit clueless as to what to expect! Xx

Clca Thu 20-Dec-12 18:05:33

Good luck for tomorrow Jen! Keeping my fingers crossed for you! envyenvy xx

jennimoo Thu 20-Dec-12 20:49:41

Thank you! Will let you know...

jennimoo Fri 21-Dec-12 05:48:57

A BFP!!!!!

Clca Fri 21-Dec-12 09:25:05

Whooooohoooo! Amazing news, so so pleased for you! Are you in a state of shock? Xxx

jennimoo Fri 21-Dec-12 12:08:01

Yep, quite shocked, but feeling quite sicky already, but had been ignoring it! Just gotta deal with all those Xmas drinking situations now!

Clca Fri 21-Dec-12 16:03:45

It is seriously the worst month to hide being preggo. Just had my Christmas work lunch and off to a party tonight.... And a wedding tomorrow......

Ah well fully worth it! Is this your first? Xx

jennimoo Fri 21-Dec-12 17:26:01

At least I have to drive tonight so a few pretend sips of wine should make it ok!

This is DC2, DD is 2.2 now so will be almost 3 years between them if this one sticks.

Clca Fri 21-Dec-12 17:49:09

I'm sure it'll stick. Massive congratulations again - such lovely news xx

Clca Wed 26-Dec-12 18:03:43

Hope you had a fabulous Christmas! X

polkadotsrock Wed 26-Dec-12 18:41:27

Wow, what a lucky thread this was!!! <just wanted to get on it in case it brings me luck too wink
Congrats to all grin

jennimoo Wed 26-Dec-12 20:34:08

Definitely the lucky thread! Still seem to be pg as no AF but haven't tested again. Christmas has been tiring (DD2.3...) and sober but exciting to have this little secret!

Clca Thu 27-Dec-12 22:09:41

Very luck polkadot.... Sending lots of luck your way!

Glad to hear it Jennimoo! I too have had a very sober Christmas! I feel completely exhausted all the time.... Could actually sleep for Britain! Xx

polkadotsrock Thu 27-Dec-12 22:28:08

Thanks ladies. Glad to hear all is well with you. I remember the tiredness, I was constantly napping! We're starting in earnest this weekend- yay!!

Clca Thu 27-Dec-12 22:36:56

Well if you go any thing like this thread you'll be preggo in no time! wink

This is my first so I am pretty clueless as to what to expect! X

Girraferama Sat 29-Dec-12 23:39:00

Hi all - wow congratulations! You've given me hope as I keep testing negative but no AF has arrived and just didn't know whether to keep testing... I'm 10 days overdue now - I last tested the day before yesterday. How overdue were you guys when you got your BFP?

Clca Mon 31-Dec-12 11:56:59


I was about 4 days late when I got my bfp. I did test earlier and got a bfn though! Best of luck to you! X

bundle4me Mon 31-Dec-12 12:26:24

Wow, I'm so jealous! Congrats to you girls! Also doing the same as polkadotsrock to get in on the luck - spread some baby dust my way! AF it a little late but had a BFN at the weekend but praying it could be too early to pick up.

Congrats again girls and good luck to the rest of us!

Clca Thu 03-Jan-13 07:34:14

Any news @bundle4me? Xx

bundle4me Thu 03-Jan-13 11:46:27

Hi Clca Afraid not! I did another test on Tuesday...another BFN! sad However still no sign of AF. It's been 34 days since my last AF when I came off the pill so I'm not entirely sure what my cycle is meant to be. I hate the fact that I'm sympton spotting every little thing - its driving me crazy! angry

Is it sinking in yet for you?

Clca Thu 03-Jan-13 17:29:45

No AF is good.... There's still a chance!

Feeling a little more real now. Got my first mw appointment and scan booked in - just petrified of something going wrong! Roll on 12 weeks.... 9 1/2 weeks down! Xx

jennimoo Thu 03-Jan-13 17:48:18

Hello. I'm 5.5 weeks now, and still pg smile

Hope the luck rubs off on you bundle 4 me.

Clca Fri 04-Jan-13 20:24:35

Fabulous news @jennimoo! How are you feeling?

jennimoo Fri 04-Jan-13 20:41:26

Queasy and knackered! The sick feeling seems to have started earlier than last time too.

How are you getting on? Got a date for a scan yet?

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