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Knakard Tue 23-Oct-12 00:05:28

Month 6 of ttc, have a regular 27/28 cycle both with coil and since it has been removed. On day 28 and no af and no signs what so ever no cramp pmt etc! However poas this morning and again in desperation about and hour ago and both bfn!
Both previous pregs (one mc) conceived whilst by surprise whilst still on contraception so I thought actually trying would mean it was a piece of cake (sad)
Please help me stay sane whilst I wait for af and not spend £££ on bloody tests ( no more in the house).

Clca Mon 19-Nov-12 18:54:18

Sooo Knakard did you test?! wink x

Knakard Mon 19-Nov-12 21:05:26

I caved blush bfn!
Still not due for 4 days though. Started having some cramps today though so think unlikely sad
Just feeling really frustrated, spent the weekend with my sister who is 32 weeks and felt so jelous! But I feel bad as it took them 1.5 years of ttc. I guess I just assumed with ds being an accident it would happen straight away again so it's sort of caught me off guard.

How are you feeling? x

Clca Mon 19-Nov-12 22:50:12

Ah I'm sorry. But at least, as you say, AF isn't even due yet.

I'm ok. Have no "symptoms" at all. AF due around Saturday... Am fully resigned to the fact I am week and will test before then!

Im ttc my first and stupidly just thought it would happen straight away. X

Clca Mon 19-Nov-12 22:50:38

*weak even!

Knakard Tue 20-Nov-12 23:51:25

Still no sign of af grin
No more cramps either, keep it all crossed!
I can't imagine how it must be doing this with your first and all the unknowns.

TTC is bullshit!

There I feel better now grin


Knakard Wed 21-Nov-12 00:24:59

Shit shit shit! Just has a night out on the piss, got home and something made me test ......BFP!!!! grin

Knakard Wed 21-Nov-12 00:25:33

Oh dear I have pickled my bean already sad

duchesse Wed 21-Nov-12 00:36:10

Yeay! And please try not to worry (although worrying and guilt are a major part of the life of most parents I'm afraid)

Clca Wed 21-Nov-12 10:26:06

Woooohoooo this is amazing news!!! Congratulations lovely!!! gringringrin xx

Knakard Thu 22-Nov-12 07:43:02

Thanks clca I can hardly believe it grin

Any news for you? Xx

Clca Thu 22-Nov-12 12:34:19

No news for me. Don't feel very confident.sad

Going to put of testing until Saturday though.

When are you going to the docs? X

Knakard Thu 22-Nov-12 13:52:25

No news is good news.

Docs booked for wed next week, it's really odd that nothing feels different and I keep forgetting. I didn't find out with ds till I was 17 week already blush so I have a feeling these early days are going to feel like forever?

I was just thinking today do you have a stock pile of tests as I had 10 delivered today that I'd forgot about blush just Internet cheapies but I could post them on to you.

Everything crossed for you x

Clca Thu 22-Nov-12 18:05:53

Eeek I think it will be most likely slow until you get to the 12 w scan then it will fly by! smile Is your Dh excited?

Ah that's so sweet, thank you. If the dreaded AF arrives this month I'll defo take you up on that offer smile

The count down the weekend is painfully slow. Have treated myself to a cb digital (yeah I know how to live!!!) to test this w/e


Knakard Sat 24-Nov-12 11:23:44

Sorry busy few days at work, dh looks a bit shell shocked tbh I did point out to him that he was there to grin

So any news? x

Clca Sun 25-Nov-12 13:50:01

No AF but a BFN. sad

Just want AF to arrive so we can get back to trying.

Literally everyone I know are announcing they're pregnant and it's making me want to scream!!

Knakard Sun 25-Nov-12 22:58:01

Have a very in mumsnetty hug and a glass on wine smile

Hope your ok and have it all crossed for you xx

Clca Tue 27-Nov-12 08:38:56

Thank you!

Still no AF but another BFN. Ergh. Xx

Knakard Wed 28-Nov-12 22:25:41

How are you feeling? x

LoveYouForeverMyBaby Wed 28-Nov-12 22:59:30

knakard so sorry AF arrived...look at it this way, you're only 2 weeks away from ovulating and giving it another shot. Am either ov or 1dpo will be poas crazy in th next week or two no doubt.

Clca Thu 29-Nov-12 08:52:04

Knakard wwwwhhhhhaaattttt???? Your AF arrived??????!!!!!! Huh?

I'm ok still no AF! Think my cycle length must have decided to change to longer! Xx

beckie90 Thu 29-Nov-12 09:41:38

Clca... I feel your pain, I'm normally really regular but this month sure I ovulated 2/3 days later, my period based on my original cycle was due yest, I tested on Fri n sat both neg not thinking about my late ovulation signs. Tested again Monday still neg. I orderd some net cheapies, probs test tomorow when they arrive. But don't feel pregnant at all or anything so pretty sure I'm not. Just I normally get 2 days of spotting before af arrives, I havnt got that yet. It's so fustrating xx HUGE CONGRATS KNACKERD x

Knakard Thu 29-Nov-12 11:09:22

No no I think the poster before didn't read to the en of the thread, so far so good and still up duffed!

it must be driving you bonkers! What day of cycle are you on now?

Thanks becki super chuffed smile

LoveYouForeverMyBaby Thu 29-Nov-12 11:38:00

SO sorry I didnt read the whole thread, apologises and congratulations!!

Clca Thu 29-Nov-12 12:48:41

Ah thank god for that!!! You had me worried! How did the doctors go?

I'm on day 33!!!! I am going insane. Will test again on Saturday if AF doesn't make an appearance before!


Clca Thu 29-Nov-12 17:01:57

Beckie90 - it's bloody annoying isnt it! I know I'm not pregnant but because AF hasnt arrived I cant help but hope I am. Ergh! X

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