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Knakard Tue 23-Oct-12 00:05:28

Month 6 of ttc, have a regular 27/28 cycle both with coil and since it has been removed. On day 28 and no af and no signs what so ever no cramp pmt etc! However poas this morning and again in desperation about and hour ago and both bfn!
Both previous pregs (one mc) conceived whilst by surprise whilst still on contraception so I thought actually trying would mean it was a piece of cake (sad)
Please help me stay sane whilst I wait for af and not spend £££ on bloody tests ( no more in the house).

jennimoo Thu 25-Oct-12 18:39:57

Sorry knakard. Well I have cramps but no AF, I think by the morning Ill be out. And asda sent normal clear blue tests, not digital, so ill save money as most likely wont be able to exchange them in time to pee on them!

Knakard Thu 25-Oct-12 21:17:53

Thanks guys, oh well a busy night at work to distract me and I suppose it just means another month of wine and shagging smile
When are you both "officially" late then? Fingers crossed, make sure you update.

Clca Thu 25-Oct-12 21:45:04

I was due on on Sunday so god knows what's going on with me. Keep thinking its coming but nothing just 4 negative tests!! Any clues?! X

jennimoo Fri 26-Oct-12 06:57:28

I reckon I'm due on today, have woken up with cramps but weirdly no AF still. I think it'll arrive any second, but clinging on to the slight chance...

Clca Fri 26-Oct-12 07:21:16

Keeping my fingers x'd for you jennimoo. No sign of AF for me today but just did a test and it's still neg. ffs x

Knakard Fri 26-Oct-12 09:06:54

Fingers crossed for both of you. It's so frustrating! I'm curled up on the sofa with a hotwater bottle now with cramps in full force sad
Good luck x

jennimoo Fri 26-Oct-12 10:51:35

I really wanted a hot water bottle on my tummy last night, but know that's a no no when pg so didn't!

Still no AF though, very unusual to have cramps so far in advance so trying to keep my hopes up jut a little...

Knakard Fri 26-Oct-12 23:26:33

Any news for either of you? X

jennimoo Sat 27-Oct-12 06:44:22

No AF and still BFN. If AF isn't here tomorrow I'm definitely late.

jennimoo Sat 27-Oct-12 09:55:10

And AF arrives. Really gutted. sad

Clca Sat 27-Oct-12 12:55:06

Ah Jennimoo I'm sorry. Next month hopefully. Still no AF but still negative. I am so bloody confused. A whole week late!!!!!! Ergh!

Knakard Sat 27-Oct-12 15:27:46

Aw sorry jennisad fingers xs for nxt month.
Are u gonna think about going to the doc next week of still no af clca?

Clca Sat 27-Oct-12 16:46:06

Yep. Going to give myself until the middle of next week.

It's just so odd. Any ideas ladies?

jennimoo Sat 27-Oct-12 17:36:22

Do you know when you ovulated, do you temp or watch for signs? I'd say most likely you ovulated later than usual for some reason (stress, illness, the weird workings of the female body?) and so your AF isn't really due yet, and so if you are pg it's too early for a BFP.

Clca Sat 27-Oct-12 17:41:19

Not charting so can't be sure when I ovulated. Can only but it down to the weird workings of the female body.

Annoying as I just want to get on with trying now!

How are you feeling?

jennimoo Sun 28-Oct-12 08:15:15

I'm ok, date night with DH last night and a large glass of wine. Just trying to make a plan for next month, involving relaxing and me time smile

Clca Sun 28-Oct-12 20:25:06

AF arrived this evening. Fingers crossed for the 3 or us for next month!

Knakard Sun 28-Oct-12 23:40:25

So sorry clca sad
Same place next month wink xxx

Clca Mon 12-Nov-12 17:30:45

Hi ladies,

Just thought I'd see how you're both getting on this month? Feeling positive.

AF isn't due for me for a couple of weeks so just the waiting game!


Knakard Wed 14-Nov-12 07:59:04

Hi there
Af due in 9days for me, fairly sure it's not going to happen this months though at didn't manage dtd as much as I would have liked due to mil staying. Also I got all the normal ov signs this month but no cm? Which is normally fairly obvious every month. So don't know I even ovd!
Good luck grin

Clca Thu 15-Nov-12 20:38:44

You never know the month you're not expecting it you may just be!
I've got about 9 days until I'm due (but who bloody knows as my AF seems to be all over the place!) been trying to dtd when possible but not sure if we've been at it enough!

Keeping fingers firmly crossed!

Knakard Sat 17-Nov-12 22:54:03

Hi Clca

So Howz your month going? Are you feeling hopeful? Not long now (in theory) so are you feeling anything (no symptom spotting not me gov honest)!


Clca Sun 18-Nov-12 10:45:12


Ummm hard to tell. Being Dtd regularly but. Perhaps not as much as we should have been. Have no symptoms what so ever so feel a bit lost.

AF due next weekend so you can guarantee next week will drag. sad

Another friend has announced she's preggo which just makes me hideously jealous! envy

How's things going with you? X

Knakard Sun 18-Nov-12 16:06:09

I'm good thanks, no sign of af pending and I'm due Thursday although I did have a long cycle last month so could be later.
I'm trying to be good and tell myself not to test tomorrow using my 10mlu ones blush
Just bored of waiting now, oh well we've agreed if it doesn't happen this month were not even going to thinks about it again till after Xmas is out of the way.
And I suppose being able to have a drink at all the various dos will be a bonus.

Clca Sun 18-Nov-12 22:03:40

I have zero will power so if I can't tell you not to test tomorrow!! blush

I'm so desperate to be preggo it's just stressing me out now. It's all I can sodding think about. Ridiculous woman.

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