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Dorita75 Mon 03-Sep-12 20:28:18

Hi, thought I'd start the new thread. This is a brilliant thread for anyone trying to conceive or who has got a bfp after mc, full of lovely ladies, fab advice and a lovely place to metal, so called because someone said metal instead of mental and the rest is history......

backwardpossom Mon 03-Sep-12 20:38:58

Yay new thread! smile

I shall mark my place by passing around some apple crumble if anyone would like...?

ScardyNinja Mon 03-Sep-12 20:46:32

Can I poke my head in? Had MMC in July, no AF and now a BFP CBD says 3+ weeks and am terrified! Have 1 DD already and no idea how far along I am, and I go on holiday on Friday! Should I ring the doctor before I go or after?

Quicksie Mon 03-Sep-12 20:50:07

Well done Dorita hopefully you will get the luck for starting a new thread! Fingers crossed for you.

possom did you know?!

Scardy you are very welcome, you have brought some instant good news to the thread! If I was you, I would ring before you go, just so they have got you in the system for appointments etc. My GP wouldn't want to see me, probably would just try to work out my dates over the phone if possible.

wilderumpus Mon 03-Sep-12 21:19:16

thanks dorita!

crumble backward! nom, I'm in smile great scan story, hurrah.

<squidges bum into thread, nice and comfy>

welcome scardy. hope you doing ok and not too scared?

quicksie! have you tested at all yet?! Inspire me! good luck - do you have any, ahem, symptoms?!

Quicksie Mon 03-Sep-12 21:26:07

Ha ha wilde yes every symptom going of course! Which means I am probably very foolishly kidding myself!

Convinced myself I had ' metal mouth' earlier, tasted like I was sucking a penny! But that could just be staffroom breath! Also got very tingly nipples but that could be Aunt Flo gearing up for a visit.

I am scared to test incase I am being a fool...

StateofConfusion Mon 03-Sep-12 23:30:22

Welcome and congrats to scardy

So pleased for you backward sounds like a great scan.

Good luck quicksie

I'm still plodding along 24+2 and enjoying every wriggle, having the odd brief metal still ofc, but dared to start organising myself and the new pram mattress arrived today so I dared get the pram in a check it fitted correctly and feel a bit excited.

JaffaSnaffle Tue 04-Sep-12 07:43:35

Marking place...

MumTumWanted Tue 04-Sep-12 07:47:20

Me to .....
Decaf coffee tea orange juice and some yummy blueberry muffins anyone?

First day of school run ..... Dd is 12 ... But I still drive her .... Oh the fun of living rural!

Good luck for anyone that needs it today on I phone so no hope if scrolling back between two threads !

chookford Tue 04-Sep-12 09:16:07

Hi Ladies..

Is it ok if I join too?! Suffered a mmc in July and ttc now, did a test yesterday but it was a bfn trying not to be too down about it as its only been 6 weeks... just nice to talk to people who understand what I am going through!! I have a dd who is 3 but would love another bubba to complete our family smile

wilderumpus Tue 04-Sep-12 09:19:51

hey ladies!

I got my BFP this morning! Is a good strong line on an IC at 10/11dpo. Am not very crampy, more tickly twinges, burny boobs and in a really good mood so thought I would do it (even though I knew it would be so faint/non existent this early) and went back to look and it was positive smile smile

Can't believe it smile I had inklings all month though because my big pg symptom is always a really watery mouth that, bizarrely, I get straight away. It's gross and makes me have to, ahem, spit or feel sick.

Just got to sit tight and hope AF doesn't come. hoping I don't jinx myself (?) but this month feels better than the other two pgs, only twingy but not nasty cramps or backache and I just feel well. Fingers are so crossed. so very crossed.

good luck quicksie!

MumTumWanted Tue 04-Sep-12 09:25:04

gringringringringrinyay Wilde !!!!!!

pebspop Tue 04-Sep-12 09:26:21

nice one wilde hope this is the one!

chookford Tue 04-Sep-12 09:26:56

Hi Wilder

Congrats that is fabulous news, soory I am new so I dont know your history but I have everything crossed for you that this one has a happy ending!!! x

backwardpossom Tue 04-Sep-12 10:10:07

Welcome chook I hope you get that BFP soon x

Wilde brilliant news! grin Fingers crossed you have a smooth pregnancy.

I've got maternity jeans on today. So comfy! Bliss...

chookford Tue 04-Sep-12 10:13:40

Hi Possom

Thank you, and congrats on your bump and the new comfy jeans!! I remember that feeling of utter relief when things fit properly! grin

wilderumpus Tue 04-Sep-12 10:45:16

hi chook, sorry we x posted earlier. Last thing you probably want is someone shouting their pg news in your ear blush. terrible timing. Am so sorry to hear about your mmc, I had one of those too back in April. Hope you are doing ok and you will find a very welcome home here with lots of ears if you so need it smile

thanks for the congrats peeps. confirmed with frer. they are sitting next to me on my pad by the laptop so I can keep reassuring myself is real... Starting to metal; please, please stay away bad cramps. Must make it to Fri and miss AF... eek.

StateofConfusion Tue 04-Sep-12 11:01:06

Congratulations wilde x

chookford Tue 04-Sep-12 11:04:27

Hi Wilde

No problem, it is always nice to hear that other women have happy endings after the misery of a m/c or mmc! It is great news! Will keep everything crossed that this one is a sticky one! x

Quicksie Tue 04-Sep-12 17:27:48

wilde that is brilliant! You have made my day! So exciting!
chook you are very welcome here. I had a mmc in april and the ladies on here have been a fantastic support. sorry you have had this shite experience but at least a neg test means your hormones are back to normal.

Jollyb Tue 04-Sep-12 17:30:55

Coooeee everyone. Welcome to the newcomers - sorry to hear about your recent MCs but am sure you'll find some comfort, reassurance and even amusement in this thread.

Fantastic news Wilde - couldn't remember whether you were on a TTC break still - obviously not!!

Pebs - plodding along sounds fine. Good luck for next scan.

Just started a new job - back at the hospital where I was working when DD was conceived so hoping there is 'something in the water' there.

Be in touch soon x

Quicksie Tue 04-Sep-12 17:35:19

Arghhhh my phone is rubbish!

Meant to also say state keep on truckin` and possom pregnancy jeans sound great. I could do with some of those for after a big dinner!

Hello to everyone else, I still haven't tested but no af yet either! If tomorrow is the same I won't be able to contain myself much longer and will have to find a chemists sufficiently far enough away from school... parents seem to work in chemists or supermarkets!

Quicksie Tue 04-Sep-12 17:37:09

jolly congrats on the job and fingers crossed for the water!

wilderumpus Tue 04-Sep-12 17:38:27

whispers <test quicksie!> good luck!

good luck in your new job jolly

StateofConfusion Tue 04-Sep-12 18:17:45

Good luck quicksie

I have my GTT tomorrow first thing, I'm dreading it, made me feel awful when pg with dd. <Feels sorry for self>

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