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After m/c - the wine and shagging thread: no 2!

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wilderumpus · 03/07/2012 11:19

Hello ladies!

So we have had our mc's... and are moving on and thinking about making new babies :) Hurray, hurray!

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snickers251 · 03/07/2012 11:35

I'm a newbie but can I join?

Had my 1st natural mc on 10/6 at 5w, eager to get going again Smile x

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wilderumpus · 03/07/2012 11:39

hallo snickers of course, of course! everyone on this thread is getting pregnant so plenty of room for fresh meat new company :)

So sorry to hear about your mc. Hope you are ok and looking after yourself. Was your first baby your first DC? Hopefully you'll be preggo again in no time :) x

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snickers251 · 03/07/2012 11:44

Would have been a much wanted 2nd, have 21 month ds

Feel surprisingly positive about it really (have my moments Blush) but have accepted it wasn't meant to be!

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wilderumpus · 03/07/2012 11:52

I have a 2.5 month old DS :) I love this age more than I thought I would I have to say. Am glad you are ok about it... I had a terrible time accepting it in the end, all hit me about two weeks after the actual mc (had the mc in hospital, my body wasn't giving it up!). Mine was my second baby too, very much wanted too.

Are you ttc in this cycle (thinking this be your first after mc) or having a break?

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snickers251 · 03/07/2012 12:11

Sorry to hear you had a rough time Sad it's not an easy thing to go through which is why I'm surprised I'm coping so well!

I think I've found it easier than i thought because it happened early and at home and I had my wonderful ds to keep me busy, fab age!

Tested negative a week after so not waiting but not using opk or working out dates just lots of shagging! Grin hehe

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ChuckleMonster · 03/07/2012 13:09

Well done wilde, a nice new thread for making lots of nice new babies in! Hello snickers - sorry to hear about your mc, glad you have a lovely DS to keep you occupied!!! Off to check old thread incase hee has tested and posted there!!

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HeeHeeHeeBum · 03/07/2012 13:15

Ooh nice new thread. Hello snickers sorry you have been through a mc but it is nice to meet you.
Not tested yet but will do it immediately when I get home :)

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wilderumpus · 03/07/2012 13:18

dear friend

Please stop posting your baby pictures on facebook because it catches me out and makes my heart hurt.

thank you,
wilde.

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wilderumpus · 03/07/2012 13:20

ooh hello chuckle and hee!

please can you say something to each other on the old thread so it is full up? it is affecting my ocd tendencies terribly Wink Grin.

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icequeenkate · 03/07/2012 13:30

Afternoon!

Welcome snickers - this thread has been so supportive to me, and as Wilde said, it is turning out to be a fruitful one too Smile

Shiny new threadGrin - well done wilde!

Am having DH probs - I don't want sex at moment as convinced my mc started after a session. My mw told me that if a preg is likely to fail, sex can start it off - and while j was waiting to mc she suggested ut might move thjngs along a bit. He is sending me for another scan tomorrow to prove that all is well, and then we can have 'relations' when we go on holiday next week. Blush he has said he won't be able to stand 10 days of me in bikini. Poor bloke.

Waiting with bated breath for your result hee

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wilderumpus · 03/07/2012 14:02

thanks for finishing the thread!

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snickers251 · 03/07/2012 14:36

Hi all and thanks for the welcome! Think I can settle down nice and comfy in here Grin

Dh is the same won't touch me when pregnant, not that I minded towards the end ... I was huge! X

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booboomonster · 03/07/2012 15:24

Omg quick post to say:
Hee! Congrats! A line is a line! Woooo hoo!

Welcome snickers!

Hello new thread!

And finally - I am incredibly horny when pg! Not sure what that means but it's worse towards end when I am massive & last time DH didn't feel comfortable doing it cos of the baby! God I was frustrated.

Anyway, back to work... Am on phone so sorry 4 typos.

Xx

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onemoreforgoodmeasure · 03/07/2012 17:28

Urgh! MN locked me out so lost post!!!

Hi everyone! Thanks for this lovely new home Wild! I'll be marking my place before another lock out!

Hi snickers, welcome! Sorry about your MC, glad to hear you're doing ok.

Ice, I was shocked to read your mw recommended sex to hasten along the mc, that sounds like awful advice to me! And your DH has to find other things to do if you don't want to!

No news here, the long wait is that bit nearer its end, cd 25 here and my range of cycle is wide but my average is 25.86 days (!).

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onemoreforgoodmeasure · 03/07/2012 17:29

Oh, and I forgot to rewrite about Hee Watch excitement!!!!

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HeeHeeHeeBum · 03/07/2012 18:38

Ok, I'm home. Going to poas now...

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HeeHeeHeeBum · 03/07/2012 18:46

BFP :) faint line still, but definitely there.

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wilderumpus · 03/07/2012 19:23

HURRAY HEE! Congratulations! Grin

How are you? are you ok, not going crackers yet are you? Have you told your OH?! so exciting! Must have been implantation bleeding then! fabulous x

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GoodButNotOutstanding · 03/07/2012 19:26

Congratulations Hee!!! How exciting for you!!

I'm jodidi by the way but have name changed.

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HeeHeeHeeBum · 03/07/2012 19:33

wild I feel very happy, very nervous and very sore boobed :) DH knows and is happy but encouraging me to be cautious.

Hi good/jo :) nice to see you and thanks.

I hope you won't mind me sticking around. I would really miss you all otherwise.

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snickers251 · 03/07/2012 19:37

Congrats Hee!!!! SmileSmileSmile xxx

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icequeenkate · 03/07/2012 19:59

YayGrinGrinGrinGrinGrin BFP on shiny new thread - bodes well.

Wilde - we shall have our own thread in pg section soon. We shall.

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ChuckleMonster · 03/07/2012 20:03

Woo Hoo Hee Another wine and shagging baby! We are doing well arent we!

What am I being quiet about wilde?! (I am having morning after a drunk night out type paranoias that you all saw me trolleyed at the weekend and want to know what I got up to!)

I lose all interest in the old nookie when up duffed and last pg I banned sex as didnt want to mc again, fat lot of good that did. Probably wont ban it again but probably wont feel like it either. I did manage to kick start DD labour with a quickie though!!!

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onemoreforgoodmeasure · 03/07/2012 21:04

Woo hoo!!!!

And lovely to see you GBNOS!

Awww. That's given me a smile Hee.

And chuckling at Chuckle hangover paranoia.

'Night.

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booboomonster · 03/07/2012 21:33

Great news hee I am well jealous, but in a good way Grin Really really pleased for you. Just hope we will all be joining you in the next month or so... def stick around and sprinkle the good luck about!

No news here - ff is still changing daily. (You are right one not so much friend as fertility f*ckwit!!). So now it looks like our drunken saturday night shag was the best bet for catching ov. oh dear....

Early night for me tonight. Roll on more good news!!

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