Is everyone in the world pregnant but me!

[Countmyblessings]

Need to rant I believe my 1st AF is on its way since my eptopic and tube removal the end of April 12!!!!!
My emotions are all over the place and I'm now crying as " Gennie in emmerdale" seems to of gotten pregnant without wanting or trying!!! It's a soap! But feel like its happening in real life too!!!!!!

[Munchin]

count I saw that on emmerdale. I know it seems that world and his granny are preggers but I suppose there was always that amount of pg ladies we are probably just more sensitive to them now.

[Pipbin]

I agree. EVERYONE but me is pg. Even men. Everyone.

[Countmyblessings]

Yes I agree more sensitive to it! Was in ikea and every other women was pregnant and I couldn't help try guess would I be bigger or smaller then her right now!!!!!

I'm having a low, bad day today! Must be my non -pregnant -soon -will -be -here-period-hormones!!!!!!!!!!!

[fatasbutter]

Ugh - know how you feel! Am in my first AF after first month of TTC after my mmc in march - ALL my friends have either just had a baby or are preggers!

Thought I was ok with it but as it got towards AF ad I realised this months efforts had gone to waste, I felt so jealous again! The hormones don't help either!!

It WILL be us soon! [determined face]

[fanjodisfunction]

count life is crap sometimes, we know that more than some me and you. It will happen for you, I know it seams it won't but I'm sure it will. Come on the thread and have a proper rant if you want. We all know how you feel on there.
Hugs hun.

[HRHCavey]

Yup, I'm with you. We've been TTC since May 2010 and so far nothing - zip, nada, niente! I have PCOS and very irregular cycles, so in reality we've probably only had 11 or 12 chances in that time.

But still everyone seems to pregnant except me! And you guys!

[hellokittydrivesmenuts]

I believe they are all hidden in a closet until you start trying then they are everywhere, small practice of 6 women and 3 all pregnant with boys!then sis inlaw announced to me infront of her mum new years eve that was tactful then asked me not to tell her brother (DP) so for 2 months he could not understand why i wanted to avoid family gatherings it was awful but no she is blosssoming i am making the most of cute summer clothes which i would not wear whilst with child! ( how mean and nasty am i?)
Count a huge hug its hideous esp just after the trt and witing for that first Af and wondering how you would be feeling. I am sorry sorry xxx

[Countmyblessings]

Hi fata, HRH, Fanjo and Kitty!!!!
I'm struggling at the moment and so good at encouraging others but for me it's so hard! I'm blessed as I have children and I had them without really trying well my ds I tried ( from 06 - 09) he was conceived and came in 2010.
Now after my 2 losses recently Im feeling abit sad, and let down, just when in feel ready and ok! The wave of emotions and gush of sadness hits like a wave!!!!!!! I think the pregnant women have been hired to do this " flash mob" style in shopping centres and all shops I frequent!!!!!

[hellokittydrivesmenuts]

Count you are right!!! have you ever red a book about the red tent- way back in history women had to go in a tent and lay down for all their AF's similar to one for all with BFP's iwonder if way back then it was easier ? I too have a dd and feel very blessed but i think its ok until it hits a year ish or if you loose ( mc 3 cycles ago) and who said you were more fertile then? well apparently not as still nothing !!
I am very good at looking uneffected by more and more pregnancy news then get home and cry to DP who seems to tke it on the chin!!
xxxxxxxx

[Countmyblessings]

Hellokitty- I don't know that book but I def feel that flash mob of pregnant women is a weakness!
Well my 1st AF is here and it's painful physically and emotionally!
Wow never thought I would feel like this!!
Back pain and cramping!!!!!!!

[farfallarocks]

I used to be stalked by pregnant women when we were TTC and after 2 MCs. Peter Jones, I counted 6 in one floor, all my friends got knocked up the minute they sniffed their partner's boxer shorts. Even on holiday, in India, in remote rajastan there was a pregnant lady by the pool (with a bump the same size as I should have had) which sent me crying to my room for the afternoon.

It will happen for you eventually (and when it does you will stop noticing pregnant women and babies!!)

[fanjodisfunction]

count I know its not the same but both of my periods after miscarriages have been heavy and painful. Its just an added middle finger to you though isnt it. Is this your last cycle before you can start again?

I always see pregnant women or women with newborns, makes me sick sometimes. Im so jealous, I have to look away, or sometimes I smile in the hope that good karma will come my way.

[SweetieDoesIt]

I am feeling very low with TTC today too, AF arrived this morning. I was 15DPO, my longest LP ever, and this is the cycle after my HSG so just felt everything seemed so positive.

We don't have any kids so seem to be haunted by pregnant stalkers and those who seem to be cruel or shouting at their kids. I just always think to myself "don't you realise how lucky you are" am sure one day I will actually say something rather than just think it to myself.

I just feel so sad that it is so difficult when everyone in RL drops on without even trying.

[blondebaby111]

arghhhh!!! know how u feel hun...its horrendous!! if i'm not seeing pregnant women i'm seeing babies everywhere....really gets you down sometimes!!! i'm not a mummy yet but it's very difficult made even worse by sil being pregnant and mother in law taking great delight in telling us :(((

[cookiemonster100]

I know how you all feel...i swear the whole floor in my office if pg. Not any other level, just the level i sit in. To torment me.

Count: you talking of me Gennie getting pg in Emmerdale, it was Eastenders and Siad (who is gay) getting his wife pregnant (background he was avoiding having bd with her coz he loves Christian...) and she got pg! That made me cry ....yes we have been TTC for a long time now!
And FB has just made it worse! Everyone seems to popping up with pg annoucements, birth annoucements etc etc. aargghh i can't get away from it!!

[Countmyblessings]

Well my hormones are in check!!!!!!!
Big hug to those who don't have dc yet!
Trust me I think it my ds2 that keep me from staying in my bed all day everyday!!!!! I feel so selfish, self absorbed and awful at the moment AF is in full swing my 1st cycle after ectopic!!!! The pain is unreal!!
I was watching E and was watching bill and gulianna do desperate for a baby and then she got cancer!!! All that money and the one thing they want they can't have!!! But they have a surrogate and will have a child soon!!!! That's reality!!!!!!!
Im blessed and know it I think people think so shouldn't feel sad of your losses because I already have but if I didn't want that baby I wouldn't of been trying!!!!!!'

[Countmyblessings]

Sorry excuse spelling errors I'm on my phone!" so" desperate! " I shouldn't!

[NicolaHazel]

Cookie the 7th person I know of at work announced pregnancy today, plus a bloke at work's wife also pregnant. Just a baby-making factory where I am, as about 6 people are on maternity leave already!

Getting very jealous :-(

[Countmyblessings]

My thoughts and prayers go out to the parents of those beautiful triplets that died in Dubai! To lose all of them at once must be heartbreaking!!!!
All those memories and reminders!!!!!

[Countmyblessings]

Sit in there chair you may catch it NicolaHazel!!!!!

[iloveberries]

Another 'odd one out' here. I'm lucky enought to have a DS (2.5yrs) but the other 5 ladies from my NCT group have all popped out a lovely 2nd sproglet after just sniffing their husbands' boxer shorts Farfallarocks - that is a fab saying, i'm stealing it ;) It is brutal and not only is it hard seeing them all, i am totally left out of the conversations as they're all about baby... i do feel quite sorry for the toddlers though as they're just ignored most of the time as the new baby needs so much.

Pretty sure 2 other close friends are preggo too so just waiting for those announcements, will be relieved when they're out there.

It is helpful to know there are other ladies out there like me though. Mumsnet rules.

[Countmyblessings]

Hi ilove- I'm here also waiting for the announcements they tend to come all at once right! So I'm bracing myself!!!!!
How's everyone else doing today????

[hellokittydrivesmenuts]

Hi all just popping by with waves/hugs/prayers its just rubbish the amount of bump rubbers there are.
SIL preg and she now even talks on behalf of the baby and has completely lost total personality every subject gets reverted back to the baby, further more she knows we are now under investigations as to why not happening but everytime she doesn't think of me i come back with something extra nice for her and baby as i think if not i would have to avoid her lol xxx

[iloveberries]

hellokitty - are you not pretty pissed off that she is being so insensitive going on about her baby when she knows you're under investigation?

[hellokittydrivesmenuts]

Berries- very upset about it but you know you cant change some people ! i just know that the only person who will stress about it is me so its not worth it xx