No baby this month

[NicJayne]

Morning All

Just needed a sympathetic ear for a moment before I move on to next month. Woke up to discover my AF has arrived :( . I'm only on cycle 2 of TTC but somehow I seemed to nearly convince myself id be pregnant! (I've been waiting TTC with my DH for about 3 years now - he needed to get his head around it all!)

Ah well - cycle 3 starts today - come on egg and a super swimmer!

NJ x

[emeraldgirl1]

I'm really sorry to hear that NicJayne. I'm in exactly the same boat as you. I was sure this time it would be it - felt sick all day y'day which I never usually get pre-period. Did a test this morning (AF due tomorrow) and it's a big fat no. I'm really down about it.This is when self-employment and working from home becomes a nightmare; I don't even have any colleagues or pointless meetings to distract me!!

You have my hue sympathy, fingers crossed for you for cycle 3!!! xx

[emeraldgirl1]

Oh, and NicJayne - like you I've been waiting a while ttc cos of a reluctant hubbie... took him a long time to get his head in the game IYSWIM!!! Hence the fact I'm being rather mean to him this morning. Poor bloke. But I'm in a mean, blaming kind of a mood!!! Not fair and not wise, I know. But I spent all day y'day (stupidly) fantasising about baby names and how we'd tell our families... it's a long plummet down to reality. Unfortunately poor DH may have to take a bit of flak today.

[NicJayne]

Thank you emeraldgirl you have made me feel better! It's a comfort to know you're not the only one feeling crap!

I've got a secret baby names list on my iPhone !

Maybe your test today was inaccurate if you aren't due til tomo?

Like you say it's a long fall to reality! Ive spent the last 2 weeks convincing myself of symptoms, and planning how/when to tell people. We must be crazy - but at least we're not alone!

If only our DH's had got a wriggle on! How old are you if you don't mind? I'm 34 but wanting my first latest 35 as def want more than 1!

Xx

[emeraldgirl1]

I'm 35 nicjayne... I'd like more than one as well but at the moment it looks like enough of a mountain to climb just getting my hands on one!!!

We are crazy, but am hopeful that only temporarily so...

Did a test again today and still negative; now of course am convincing myself that is test's fault (clearblue digital, may not be very accurate one? waste of money???) as I just can't seem to let go of the last 2 weeks' fantasising just yet... :(

Good luck next cycle... :) xx

[Pinkie29]

Feel your pain NJ!!

I'm in cd12 of cycle 4 ttc no 1! Obviously I thought I'd get pregnant as soon as I stopped my pill being as so many apparently fall whilst on it

I honestly though I was pg this time round didn't test or anything just felt different? The crappy feeling will pass and you'll be back it soon I've ordered a fertility monitor so got that to use next month

[NicJayne]

Emeraldgirl hopefully we won't be crazy for long! Damn those negative tests! I really do hope they are wrong! Thank you for the good luck - sending you lots back!

Pinkie I too use a monitor - helps me feel more in control! I also discovered that I ovulate 2 days earlier than the usual day 12 in my last cycle. Useful to know when planning for sex! Oh god that is the most unromantic thing!!

I felt different last time too but it wasn't my cycle ( she says positively!)

Good luck both xx

[NicJayne]

Oops - meant day 14!

[Pinkie29]

I ovd (I think) on cd 28! Then came on 15 days later, long cycle so hopefully when we start the monitor we'll have a better idea, it is a bit unromantic but needs must! Only a few days a month it's like that thankfully