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My history trying to get pregnant

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Rochele · 30/03/2012 18:18

How are you? I just want you to see what I've been though to have a baby. When we first got married one year went by.
I went to a fertility Doctor at University hospital  and was put on clomid nothing happen they told me my husband must come.
It took 10 years before he would finally go. Now I'm 40 years old they got 3 embryos from me and two was put back. It did not grow I had to have a D N C to take it out.
We found a donor in the family but there eggs was not good to go.
We decided to go on the donor list to find one here in cleveland this was a program cleveland clinic was doing. We stayed on it for two to three years before they called and said no black donors and i had to come  off the list.
At age 47 we found a  donor in Nigeria Cleveland Clinic was willing to work with her we just needed to get her here. The clinic put me on medicine thinking she was suppose to come soon and we keep sending her money for visa bus housing see always needed money but she never came. One day she wrote to say she got married. I felt we paid for her wedding.
Know I am here the first three embro failed before they could be put in and know 3 embryos are In and I had heavy bleeding for 4 day 5 days after transfere. I am praying for my baby to be alive by the grace of GOD
I just hope great out comes a baby. So you see I am mentally hurt but hopeful and I'm not going to stop until baby I font have to many more try's I just pray this is the one this last process was done in Nigeria because I had a better chance for a black donor. Can someone tell when to test and has anyone bleed like this with no period in 3 years.

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Countmyblessings · 19/04/2012 21:50

Sorry never been through what you have!
But I pray that all will be well and the prayers of being a mother will be fulfilled!
God will get the glory and the tests and trials you have endured!
Will be your strength!
God bless you for sharing!
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