Just wanted to introduce myself, and get advice from those who have already taken their first 'official' TTC steps.
I've been with my partner for 11 years, and haven't used any form of contraceptive in all the time we have been together. For the first six years or so, we were like the proverbial bunnies. Whilst we weren't actively planning for a baby, we were always hoping that Mother Nature might look our way. And just in case she was really busy, we gave her lots to look at !!
Then, my partner was diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes. The downhill slide was incredibly quick. Two years later, our horizontal miles were miles apart, even with the help of the little blue pill. It's now been two years since 'sleeping together' meant anything other than just that.
New year, new us. We moved from a first floor two bed flat to a fabulous three bed semi and now feel like we can take on the world. So today was 'doctor' day. He was lovely, asked lots of questions, typed up loads of notes. I'm now booked in for blood tests on 4th Apr (day 21 is apparently important?) and a physical exam. As I went alone today, my DP is booked in to see him on 3rd Apr.
I should be feeling really positive, but instead I feel sick, scared, hellishly weepy. It's like, by seeing the doctor, I have somehow raised its importance in my life whereas before I could brush it off that we 'hadn't really been trying anyway'.
Please tell me I'm normal :)
How did everyone else feel when they made the move to officialdom?
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Day 1 of officially TTC (after 11 years of unofficialdom)
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Geeklette · 30/03/2012 16:51
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